wonderinggirl87

He did it last week. He had sex with the other girl and got tested for STDs at my demand. Thanks everybody, I just needed to know there was hope. Things are better between us than I thought they would be although they are a little weird.

Here it is :

- going out for 3 1/2 yrs

- bf cheated once because too drunk at college

- he doesn't remember anything but knows for sure it happened

- love him very much

- he confessed right away

- this is totally not like him

- he feels really guilty

- I told him I was ready to give him a second chance (last one) because I love him so much.

Can we ever be like we were before? Can our relationship last and be healthy?

Please just give me your general opinion on this