monkiez

wow that clears up things a ton, well said sweetheart21!

Well, I have this disorder, Asperger's Syndrome... and so long story short, there are alot of things that I was just born not socially understanding. Among those is this basic difference between extended conversation and flirting, I have studied all the major seduction websites and other references people usually reference, but it appears to be beyond me.

Is flirting just conversation with demonstrating value? throw in a few compliments and keep good eye contact? is there a hidden subtext I dont understand? all the instructional websites describe what to do while flirting, but not what flirting *is*.

is there a difference between 'flirting' and 'hitting on' someone? 'hitting on' someone seems to be more explicit in showing interest, but I dont know.

I'm sorry for the ...diffuclt... question, and thanks for your assistance!

Personally? theres just a few things that are automatic turnoffs

racisim

extreme homophobia

poor hygiene

really bad obesity

mostly its personality traits, not the body type that makes the difference.