lostcause

My girlfriend started this morning. Everything is ok, and a very big and valuable lesson has been learned.....in other words, ABSTINENCE!

Alright. Just talked to my g/f, and found out something. Her last period was 9 days long, and she usually is on her period for 5 days, so I'm sort of relieved. In any case, I'm buying a pregnancy test tomorrow, and she's coming over on Sunday.

Bit of an update. Haven't talked to her yet, but will arrange to get a pregnancy test no later than tomorrow if she hasn't started today. Won't see her until Saturday or Sunday, so looks like I'll have a few more days to worry.

Yeah. Well time will soon tell. I will definitely buy her a test by this weekend if she doesn't start by Thursday. I'll keep everyone posted. Thank you all for your support and advice. If you could, keep it coming, as it sets some self assurance in me that everything is going to be ok, in any circumstance.

By all means, I know precum is possible. But if she is pregnant, by all means, I'm not going to leave her in the dust. I'll be there for her and my kid until I die.

My only worry is telling my dad. My dad always told me that'd be the worst thing ever, and I'm just so afraid of him shutting me out, or my whole family shutting me out. This right here is my main fear...

Just talked to her again. She is still really stressed out. What gets me is, she's like acting like she IS, 100%, no questions asked, and I'm like almost certain that she isn't. She is refusing to look at all the other possibilities, so I can't do too much. She said if she doesn't start come Thursday, she's almost certain she is, but I'm not going to say she is or isn't until she gets tested.

That's what I told her. She is 15 and like I said, there is so much doubt, but she's being all moody and won't listen to my reasoning, so I dunno...

Withdrawl without the condom then with it is more precise. Before we used the condom (stupid why we didn't use it in the first place) I was no where close to coming, and I know myself well enough to know when it's time to pull it out, so I think the chances are slim as well.

lol You have a point....it was stupid, yes.

Alright me and my g/f had sex, and we used the withdrawal method at first, and I never came inside her, and I used a condom, but then again, never came with it on either. She was supposed to start on the 20th, and it's the 25th and she hasn't started her period. I have reasonable doubt, due to she is a major health freak, she runs cross country, and she's very stressed out over this. Can anyone give me some helpful advice?

Any help is appreciated.