Juliett

45 minutes ago, AndieA said:

Dr. Phil said something one time that addresses this.  If you rob a bank and admit it, does that make it not a crime?  I would like to think if this BF is in love with the OP as she states, he would discourage this kind of behavior from other women, especially the OP's supposed best friend.  I agree with the posters that say she is NOT a friend.  There is no respect in her behavior.  

What should I do? Should I talk to him? Just step back?

28 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

As long as your BF is honest with you that he went out with her, that's ok. She doesn't have to report to you.  He seems to like her attention and that's why he flirts with her. 

Should I say something to him? What can I do?

3 hours ago, Kwothe28 said:

Not a good best friend. And not a good boyfriend too. For the sake of yourself its best to get rid of both of them. As they both dont exhibit good and respectful behavior toward yourself. 

I know he loves me, he is perfect with me and our relationship is great but as I said I think she is the main problem. I think his way of joking flatters her and every time it seems like she seeks for more and more attention from him

51 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

How long have you been dating? How old is he? Do you two go out on one-on-one dates? Why is she hanging around you two this much? 

Why is your BF going out with her and not mentioning it?  Unfortunately it's seems like your BF is the problem. Does he have a crush on her?

 

We’ve been together for 4 months and I know he is in love with me but I’m scared that she misunderstood his behaviors. He jokes a lot with all his friends and I believe his way of joking flatters her in some kind of way. 
I forgot to say that when she went out with my boyfriend and our other friends he told me but I couldn’t go out that night. The one who said nothing to me was her

3 hours ago, MissCanuck said:

This is your best friend?

She sounds like a meddling trouble-maker. You need to re-evaluate your definition of "friend" and distance yourself from her. 

How does your boyfriend respond when she acts this way? 

I know my boyfriend is in love with me. For him she is just a friend. But as I said he gave confidence to all his friend and maybe she misunderstood his way of behaving 

I start by saying that before my boyfriend and I got together we were all friends and were part of a group with other guys.

Before we got together, there was a time when my boyfriend and I didn't even talk to each other because various things had happened between us and during this time he and my best friend bonded a lot.

He has always been a very outgoing guy with everyone so he gives a lot of confidence, but it is her behaviors that seem quite strange to me.
 She touches him a lot, she behaves clumsily and silly in front of him, when we are in group she doesn’t go out if at least he is not there because according to her he is the only one she really loves among our friends, when we are all in a group she wants to attract his attention, when she sees that he gives attention to me it almost seems to bother her, when her and I fought once she sends him messages to make me look like a fool. She is jealous of her friends and one night only her,my boyfriend and other friends went out and she didn’t tell me anything, today she replied to the story and wrote him something like "eh.. you and your girlfriend" almost in a jealous tone.

These are only a few of her behaviors,they seem weird to me but maybe I’m just thinking too much
Idk😭😭 what y’all think 
Should I be Worried ?