Stormyday

5 minutes ago, Andrina said:

What comes out of his mouth is what he's interested in. If I were listening to those words from my man I'd be really turned off, see him in a negative light, and would be doing the opposite of clinging to him. I'd be grossed out with the yuck factor and I couldn't get away fast enough. How is it that you find him to be a prized partner?

I feel the same way but it's hard because I love him and from what I hear most men are like this anyway, they're just not vocal or truthful about it. 

For the past few years my boyfriend has always told me that his values and principles were the same as mine in that he was a strictly monogamous person. Now he admits that he would be willing to sleep with other people while in a relationship if he was dating someone else but since he loves me and is in a relationship with me and it's our agreement he would never hurt me and do that. He's also a sex addict so he says out of respect for me he doesn't cheat even though most people would. He also admitted that he's now into transsexuals but "only in porn". I can't help but worry about this even though it doesn't apply to me right now. How do I know if he will change his mind later or come out with more things we're not on the same page about? I don't know if I'm just overreacting.