gazlowe

3 hours ago, Tinydance said:

Well, when you kept communicating and seeing each other, was it only as friends or were you doing anything more than that? Like, were you being intimate? Why did you stop communicating? 

The thing is, you can't really follow your heart because it's not just up to you. If she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you then you can't control her decision. If she stopped communicating with you the last three months then maybe she's either lost interest in you completely and/or she's seeing someone else.

She would just seen my message and never reply

3 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Unfortunately this seems like long standing conflicts and incompatibilities. But it's written so strangely it's difficult to decipher if she was simply unhappy or simply gave up after trying to make it work.

What exactly did she mean by: "I am not someone who Will accept u as you want"? 

not sure either, tried to talk to her several times. I mean on my mind these things we can easily worked out. I tried

4 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

How long were you together? What was the breakup about? Did those issues resolve?  Were you ok with just being friends?

Are either of you seeing other people? Has she contacted you or expressed interest in reconciliation?

You could reach out but it could be disappointing if she's moved on.

How long were you together? 1 year

What was the breakup about? I asked  What happened to us?

she said: 

What happened is what should happen. You’re not someone who can push me build to build me and I am not someone who Will accept u as you want. I am understanding but not accepting. I’m sorry about that but I am not apologizing for the unaccepting me. I deserve better than what the world would offer and I will not wait for anyone to give that to me so if I have to let go of people to see the best in me I will.

Did those issues resolve? I actually dont know, I mean these are easy to resolve

Were you ok with just being friends? i dont know

Are either of you seeing other people? no

Has she contacted you or expressed interest in reconciliation? no

In August 2022, my girlfriend ended our relationship, but we continued to communicate and see each other frequently until December. However, from January until now, we have not been in contact or seen each other. Recently, I have been feeling a strong desire to reconnect with her. I miss her very much.

should I or not?