Viper666

14 hours ago, tattoobunnie said:

Why can't you work and pay off your own mortgage?  It is very hard for CPS to take children away, so I'm not going to get into this.  Instead of fixating on someone else's car, save up for the mortgage, get a part-time job, or a job, and pay it off yourself. 

Reread what I wrote 

14 hours ago, tattoobunnie said:

Why can't you work and pay off your own mortgage?  It is very hard for CPS to take children away, so I'm not going to get into this.  Instead of fixating on someone else's car, save up for the mortgage, get a part-time job, or a job, and pay it off yourself. 

CPS was never involved. Apparently if they were, none of this would've happened 

58 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Maybe she is safer there since it's court ordered. You seem to have serious problems surviving and taking care of yourself and your son. Your lucky your family took you in instead of being in a homeless shelter or on the street. You are not entitled to money from your father.  If you are having difficulty, you can go to social services for help with food, legal problems and other assistance. 

Sometimes I wish I had of gone to a homeless shelter, instead of living with family that gives me no answers and being the family scapegoat 

51 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Maybe she is safer there since it's court ordered. You seem to have serious problems surviving and taking care of yourself and your son. Your lucky your family took you in instead of being in a homeless shelter or on the street. You are not entitled to money from your father.  If you are having difficulty, you can go to social services for help with food, legal problems and other assistance. 

She was never in danger with me in the first place. I wasn't abusive or neglectful. Apparently if CPS was involved, I would've never been separated from my daughter. My dad was a narcissist and hypocrite. He went on and on about honesty-but had no honesty himself.

4 minutes ago, MissCanuck said:

So where is your daughter now?

What you need to do is speak to a lawyer. We can't offer you the kind of advice you need here. 

My daughter is with my in laws 

19 hours ago, catfeeder said:

I'm not clear about the outcome here. Do you have custody today, or not? Visitation or not?

If you are seeking custody, you'll need to obtain legal services and build a case. One aspect of your case that would NOT serve you to include would be some pipe dream your father dangled in front of you. You don't have legal standing to hold him accountable for any proceeds from a car unless you can reasonably prove that a contract was made between the two of you, and that he did sell the car.

And this would be your burden to prove, as opposed to just claiming that he said it, to which he could simply respond that he did not say it...

So I'd make this about your current housing and the responsible conditions under which you can guarantee that you can raise your child in answer to whatever legal barriers you've been presented against doing so.

My heart goes out to you. 

I have custody of my son but not my daughter. So what do I do about my family? My sister and mother don't give me answers as to why my father screw us over. He was a narcissist and a hypocrite. I never got an apology or answers. My sister was always the golden child. My mother doesn't give me answers. Yet my parents expect me to look after them when they're elderly. 

9 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Sorry this happened. Where are you living now? Where you homeless when you lost custody? Hopefully you are getting help from friends, family social services and other resources to build a secure life for you and your child. Are you legally divorced yet? Your father's car has nothing to do with this. 

His car has everything to do with it. And I'd be paying off a mortgage on the place my in laws had for us. Instead of living with my family 

 What would you do? Long story short. Move in with husband and his family. Naive. Didn't know how controlling they were going to get. Get pregnant early on in the relationship. My father promises to sell his vintage car if we ever need it. Later renegs it. Won't explain why. Gaslights me. After the baby is born. Get Post natal depression. Husband's parents kick us out. Husband loses his job xand I couldn't get work. My parents go overseas for months. My parents eventually get back. My in laws use the legal system against me and file for custody of my daughter. Husband begs me back. Many empty promises of getting custody of my daughter back. Move in with him (without in laws) Many empty promises of getting our daughter back. Marriage becomes financially, emotionally and physically abusive. Move back in with my parents and baby. I feel like such a fool. But don't get any answers as to why my father screwed us over.