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11 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:
It's only been 3 mos. She may be more used to a mature compassionate partner she can talk to about things. Particularly since you're the one who brought her attention to this making her self-conscious about oral sex with you.
If you have issues with arousal, at 51, it may be time to see your physician. She seems to be trying to be more "fresh".
3 mos is a good time to reflect if you are compatible, especially sexually.
Thank you Wiseman2. No issues with in the arousal department, but maybe sharing things like stool consistency then 2 minutes later being aroused is just the norm. Maybe I am just a fuddy duddy...LOL
Thanks Again
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13 hours ago, jul-els said:
This is who she is. You have to take her as she is or leave her the way you found her. Don’t want to talk about it? Fair enough. Just move on.
I believe you are right jul-els. Thank You!
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Hello Not Alone Forum,
I am 51 and my girlfriend of 3 months is 48. I nicely made her aware of her feminine odor. She acknowledged that she was aware of her BV from a previous relationship and she knows how to get it under control.
From that point on she has felt okay openly discussing it, and even sharing her douching regiment with me. Once, when I was going down on her, she actually asked how she smelled down there. At that time, she smelled okay, but it totally ruined it for me and I had to stop.
I've been in many sexual relationships. I understand some of the unfortunate issues that women have to deal with. But, trying to stay mentally and physically aroused while she wants to discuss this has been an EXTREME challenge!
I feel, especially at this stage in the relationship, these are conversations that she should be having with a girlfriend or doctor. When I have expressed my reluctance to go into in-depth conversations about this, she labels me either squeamish or immature.
I can act as her confidante in this matter but is it such a romantic and sexual turn-off.
Am I out of mind?
Thoughts Please?
New Girlfriend, Vaginal Order, Discussion, and Trying to Stay In the Mood
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Hilarious response! And Thank You Very Much! 😊