So I was talking to/ seeing a guy briefly for like a month and a half. I only met up w him twice but we talked more often on social media. It was one of those situationship/hooking up situations so I know I'm just freaking out but I really liked him. He would have like non sexual conversations with me which was a step up from the last guy I hooked up with as I only heard from that man when he wanted me to come over. Anyways, apart from talking with this guy like a normal person, he would either initiate or further any sexual conversations every so often. Ask me for pics, "plan" a time to hook up or whatever and not follow through. Finally he told me he's trying to work on himself and can't have sex for religious reasons which is a valid thing to say if he was telling the truth. He said he wanted me to "have closure" and was asking me if I would respect that from him. My thing is why didn't he unadd me on social? I still have him on two platforms but I thought it was weird that someone he has history with like that he wouldn't remove. Looking for insight as to his intentions with this one.
Why wouldn't he remove me on social media?
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Hey all,
So I was talking to/ seeing a guy briefly for like a month and a half. I only met up w him twice but we talked more often on social media. It was one of those situationship/hooking up situations so I know I'm just freaking out but I really liked him. He would have like non sexual conversations with me which was a step up from the last guy I hooked up with as I only heard from that man when he wanted me to come over. Anyways, apart from talking with this guy like a normal person, he would either initiate or further any sexual conversations every so often. Ask me for pics, "plan" a time to hook up or whatever and not follow through. Finally he told me he's trying to work on himself and can't have sex for religious reasons which is a valid thing to say if he was telling the truth. He said he wanted me to "have closure" and was asking me if I would respect that from him. My thing is why didn't he unadd me on social? I still have him on two platforms but I thought it was weird that someone he has history with like that he wouldn't remove. Looking for insight as to his intentions with this one.