Songbird18

1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

"So called partner"? Are you/were you legally married? You're all over the place calling him your husband your ex your partner. Which is it?

Make sure your child gets the best care you can find and afford.

Even if you divorce, your child's father will be responsible for child support including medical care,etc.

Your "husband partner ex" whatever does not have to love you anymore but he does have to financially take care of your son.

You need to take care of yourself and your son first and foremost. Go to social services for assistance with food stamps, housing, child care, mental and physical healthcare and employment assistance.

Since your "roommate, partner, husband, ex", whatever has checked out you'll need to take care of yourself and your child.

Try to be clear on your actual legal status. It makes a difference as far as housing and finances go.

As far as your child, he's half responsible no matter what.

Ok would you like to calm down and not be abusive towards me .. it isn’t that hard to be kind .. I didn t expect this kind of response . You don’t know the trauma i’ve been through 

So I have been married nearly ten years in October . I don’t  think we will make it . I’m in my late 40’s , I’m headstrong stuck in my ways. My so called partner the same . But in his early 40’s . Our lives took a terrible turn fir the worst  mid 2020 when our eight year old son at the  time six years old was not getting through school . He got diagnosed autistic level two . Sensory issues,  major problems. I got assistance fairly  quickly to get therapies for him . Prior to that I remember going on a short  break for my birthday it was just one night cause our son was losing it not wanting us to go away . My  husband was so loving thaf weekend in June 2020. That  was the last time I felt loved . So fast forward now we had to suffer a dramatic move that  was horrific ,incredible stress, more problems with schooling , judgements made by others , now it’s April 2022 . I am all alone and just with my son . Husband still lives I. The unit we live in . Has emotionally withdrawn from me , left me to deal with all things  to do with my son  goes abs works away every night and  then sleeps all  day then will go away for a week on end won’t call and ask about his  son . Does g even care about me. But due to a crisis in housing  where I live I have been unable to leave .he’s had yelling  fits at me booming voice telling me off . I am just stuck I’m a carer for my son with no job I look after him full time  I’m in total crisis . My life is imploding . My ex husband seems to have a poor opinion of me , so much so nothing can change his mind . I am not a bad person but I believe his neglect of me and his son is stunning . My son is a beautiful complicated  boy . I believe my ex no longer loves me or our son . I never asked for any of this .