Jeffb89

11 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

It's still too fresh and raw. It hurts, so let yourself feel that.  How old is she? What was the breakup about?

Slowly retool your life. Call old friends. Go out more. Join some clubs and groups. Volunteer. Get a side job. Stay very busy. 

Pour yourself into other stuff. While not a cure for a heartache, it helps you put one foot in front of the other until the heartache lessens. 

 

 

She 34. I'm 33. She didn't said why. I asked if there third party involved. She said no. I trust her. 

I asked many times, she didn't say. What I read is that woman don‘t teach you what the problem. It is for guy to figure it out. I'm not sure if this true. 

I got injured badly when I was with her. We were having fun on the beach. But I fell and injured. Now I'm on long rehab. 

I'm currently took investment online course to make me busy. 

Edited: I think some act that I did which I though we could go as couple common goal but she thought I been following her. I wasn't leading. I also think she think that I did not have opinion to stand as I always give in to her. I felt that we lack of communication as she kept thing inside her.

None of those were paid. I download or free article.

Hi all, 

i know everyone will tell me to move on as my ex-girlfriend doesn’t love me anymore. Is there any other advice or shared experience for those success getting back with your ex-girlfriend?

my ex and i were in relationship for a year and 1 month. We were happy and were enjoying staycation in January. However it wasn’t the case, she told me that she doesn’t know if she love me anymore when i kinda push her to talk when i realised something was off. 

Fast forwards 3 weeks, she called to meet up in person and told me that she doesn’t love me anymore. She been thinking for the last 3 weeks since we last talk. I was too late to realise as she didn’t tell me that she was unhappy and something was off. She tried to fix on her own(this is what i think). I totally regretted it that when i finally found the one that i was looking for. Now she gone. I have been NC 11 days with her. I went online and read artical/ebooks on how relationship works, rebuild my confidence, communication, listening and self actualization. 

Thanks in advance.