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lol thanks keenan,

well mom mom lets me out without my dad knowing. The guy can come over, maybe hangout near the high school with friends because my high school is right accross the street. my mom will probably let me go to the movies with friends and such.

I havent given him the poem. lol

well, i cant really go to places like any older person would. my dad doesnt even allow me to go to the movies with a guy or even a couple of friends. go to places, its hard likely...

would giving a note help as well?

He serious at times when we talk about serious things. He gets serious about something he didnt do. Like if i talk about a certian place weve been in vacation he gets serious about it.

So poems dont necessary work?

the only time im near him he sits besides me, out in public seems impossible. getting him along seems bit of a challenge. lol im such a nervous wreck! is there anyway to start it or break the ice?

lol i have been having a problem here.

Theres this guy I really really like and alot of other friends say we should be a couple because:

1. He loves to playfully tease me

2. He likes throwing pieces of paper on my hair

3. He likes calling me nicknames

4. He brings up my name in a certain conversation teaseing me.

Example: In a war movie that we saw in my world civ class. Theres a guy in the movie that gets killed. The guy that i like would say *laughs* "Theres janelle dieing!" or if a teacher says "stealing isnt a good way to solve anything" He'll say "Like Janelle....." or "Yea Janelle you have to stop that..." even though i dont do such things...lol

5. He mostly askes for help from me other then his close friends that are by him.

6. Snaps his fingers near my ear so i can get annoyed

7. smacks me lightly on the back

8. Likes to purposly scare me and tells his friends "she doesnt like it when i do that." wantinig his friends to do the same thing and laugh. lol

9. Shushes me when im talk to my friends (he sometimes smiles when i look at him after he shushes me)

10. When i just turn for 1 sec at him, hell say stop staring at me.

11. He laughs at me when his friends playfully teases me.\\

pretty much when he does all of these things to me i dont get upset. i just go with the flow. We both laugh whatever he does... lol

other signs that im wondering from him

1. he wont talk to me most of the time when i walk in public as if we dont know eachother. (course i do the same)

2. i sometimes catch him looking at me shortly from afar

3. He asked me "can you look in the corners of your eye?" as if he was testing me?

4. Hes quite at times when i'am not near him

5. My friend asked us both that we should be a couple, he smiled and said jokingly "nah! shes too much for me! shes going to go all gothic on me!" (thats the nickname they call me, course im not quite all gothic they just say it to get me annoyed)

^ from all the lists i put above, just to make it approve of thoughts, signs that he likes me?^

PROBLEM:

Ive been waiting if he would ever ask me out, but this guy seems stubborn and shy to answer a simple question. I, of course, am really shy and i know everyone doenst like the fear of rejection, but I had Hes best friends and my best friends play a little role to find out and admit that or if he likes me. Both of them have him in there last class. My friends told his best friend to go up to him and ask. Well, when his best friend asked him he stood silent. Hes friend asked again and didnt answer. Then my friend went to ask him and he stood silent. So, again a week later theyeve asked him again and the same thing happened. he stood silent and tried sliding off the answer by talking to other friends of his. My friend tried everything and she told me that the only way is to ask him. Ive never asked a guy before in person! and im very sensitive type person i get my feelings hurt easily. So, the only way is that i thought of writing a poem to him. Im very poetic and thought it would be a good idea?

1. Do guys really get flattered by a romantic poem written by someone who has feelings for him?

My short example: "You symbolize my own heart, Everybeat repeats your name"

2. Why wouldnt he answer? Expecially to any of his friends!

Can anybody explain throughly about everything? Im so confused!

Thank you so much for having the time to read this...

LOL, okay, well thanks for the info! i was waiting for at least one person to answer and you came to help out. thanks!

Well, seems to me i knew this guy for 3 years but not as much and then he moved to a different school and i havent seen him for a year in a half! Tho he did manage to come to the same school because the other school wasnt good and all but, well, I had a crush on him for a while back in the 7 or 8th grade and till this year he came and im starting to get feelings for him again. I dont know he's attracted to me but the problem is, I cant seem to get good topics to talk about. I know i knew him for three years but i didnt hang around with him as much back then till now. but anyways, Him and i hang out along with my other friend. He will sorta talk when three of us meet, but when she leaves, him and i are speechless. he'll sometimes end up fiddleing with his fingers and looking back on his shoulder. I ask him whats wrong and he says "nothing..." and its true cause hes not looking for anybody. Attraction???

Other thing is he likes to poke me in the arm alot and one time my friend asked him, "Why do you do that alot?" he'll smile and say "To make her angry." I do seem to "play back" at the pokeing thing and he'll do the poking vice versa... attraction???

Well when we are left alone i asked him what did you do on vacation? how was your day? weekend? and then i drop the questions cause i cant think of anything else! and i thought asking him to the dance for sadies and i dont know if i have the guts to...

any help???

thanks!

awesome, thanks!

hi guys,

i just wanted to know when a guy looks at you and trys to make you laugh alot, is it a flirtatious sign???

explain?? thank you!

Sometimes you have to be careful. some older guys try to take over you...

it would be nice to ask my close friend of who her brother likes, but to me its kinda uncomforatable ask her that. i just dont want to ask her who her brother likes....she'll pick up the idea that i like her bro. even her brothers friends...

she mentioned to me once that her brother barely tells her things like who he likes who and stuff..tricky.....any good use of help here???

Yes, im intrested in him.

Though, there are some things i get nervous about. Sometimes i cant get any more ideas to start a good long conversation. Sure, i'll ask him, How was your day? what are you doing for vacation? then i seem to run out of what to ask. Also keeping etye contact, I'm very shy looking at him and i dont want him to think im not intrested in him. I'm close friends with his sister tho, i dont want her to know i like her brother. it would be a good idea to ask her what he likes and all, but to me telling my friend that i like her brother seems incomfortable or asking any of my crushes friends. any help?

It could be.

 

Fidgeting is often a sign that there could be interest.

 

How does he react around you? As far as you know; does he have any interests in you?

 

How'd you feel about him? [silly question.]

 

[Edit I nearly forgot. Welcome to eNotAlone!

 

well, he react kinda silly around his friends butusually when its just him and I, he's quiet. Expecially on the phone, he'll be speechless so i try to start a conversation with him and it works, though were both usually just quiet. I caught him of course checking me out then when i turn he seems embarrased??? Im not sure if he has intrest in me, but he seems suspicious. His friend once caught him looking at me and she said "why are you looking at her like that?" he didnt say nothing and i turned around and he stopped staring. So i dont know if hes into me or not???

When a guy throwns back his long hair in a manly way and kinda shows his neck and looks at you in the corner of his eyes is it a flirtaous sign???

Help please!