skermahger

Thought I would add to the good vibes:

1. My mom and dad actually split up for a year before getting married. She moved to a different state and they randomly bumped into each other and started things up again.

2. One of my exes got back together and is engaged to his high school ex

3. A friend of mine and her now-husband broke up on five different occasions, including at least once when they were engaged and at least once for months. Unsure on who did the dumping, if there was any contact, etc. but she comforted me when I shared how I was feeling about my recent breakup and she said her breakups were hard for her too. 

4. Another friend of mine and her now-husband broke up but only for a couple days

Again good luck to everyone out there. I'm with you on feeling hopeful, sad, scared, anxious, depressed – all of the feelings! Sending you a virtual hug and well wishes.

This thread/forum has been a welcome distraction from a ***ty breakup. I know it's not great to hitch your wagon to the chance an ex will come back but as many people on here have said, it's their way of coping for the time being. Good luck to everyone out there. Sending you compassion for wherever you're at today 🙂