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    Home alone with toxic parents

    in Parenting and Families

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    2 minutes ago, LaHermes said:

    I am sorry to hear this, OP.  I simply do not understand, and never will, how parents can behave like this. They should be proud of you, and say so!

    The sooner you get out on your own the better.  And get back overseas where your friends are. 

    Thank you, LaHermes. 

    Home alone with toxic parents

    in Parenting and Families

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    34 minutes ago, MissCanuck said:

    Congratulations on completing your degree, Iris. 

    I am sorry your parents have not recognized your achievement, that must really sting. But now that you have graduated, are you working? My plan in your shoes would be to find a job and move out of their house, as soon as possible. 

    Thank you, MissCanuck. I do plan on moving out as soon as I get a job. 

    Home alone with toxic parents

    in Parenting and Families

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    Hi guys,

    I've been struggling with this for a long time. Last year, my parents forced me to complete my degree from my home country due to the pandemic. That decision caused me to have a breakdown later in the year because I felt like I was robbed seeing all my friends living their dreams overseas whereas I was stuck at home. My dad and I had a massive fight about this and we barely spoke for 3 months. I managed to complete my degree and graduated with excellent results. I appreciate everything my parents have done for me but I can't help but feel like I don't have a great relationship with my parents. After I received my final year results, I was really excited and felt proud of myself because it showed that I could do things despite everything that had happened. My parents on the other hand, did not acknowledge my achievements and never congratulated me.

    I have been home alone with my parents since the pandemic started and we have been in lockdown (still!) for almost 2 years. My older siblings have left the nest and I am stuck at home dealing with my parents. I am well aware that after the massive fight with my dad, our relationship has gone downhill. I have tried to talk to my mum about my issues and feelings but she never listens and turns everything into a lecture. Any advice on how to cope with my situation is appreciated.

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