I am absolutely distraught. I noticed and app called KIK on my boyfriends phone yesterday and on looking further into it he was on a group called 'share wife pictures'. On clicking on the chats there were numerous chats with other men where he has sent pictures of me both clothed and naked aswell as some naughty videos filmed of us.
These pictures for one are confidential and I expected them to be between just me and him. I am also very confused as to why he would do this. He was talking about the other mens wives in a sexual way and seeking praise for my pictures. He says he loves me and thinks I'm amazing and he is proud to show me off. I did not consent to this and I think its very disturbing that he has got some sick sexual kick out of this.
In my past relationship when much younger I had a threesome, I did not long for this but at the time my head was not in a great place and I consented to it. It was not a healthy relationship and I never even longed for another relationship with flaws like that. I told my partner about this experience but made him aware how little I wanted this at the time. I have also experienced bicurious encounters and this is something my now partner seems to be excited about even tho I am definitely not bisexual, it was just experimentation at the time.
Now I have found myself in this position and I am so confused by it. The relationship is only 1 year in, it is healthy, loving and normal and everything I hoped for in a relationship... until now that is.
He claims it is just a fantasy but that he feels why would I not let him experience a threesome when it is something I have done before. I feel this is an unfair comment to make. He says he feels inexperienced and this fantasy turns him on aswell as him been proud to show me off.
I know I have a past but I have been open with him about my feelings about what I have encountered and that it is never something I wish to do again. Yet I feel like he is making me feel bad that I won't do it with him. And I'm soooo confused of why he would want to share pictures of me with other men?!?!
I just do not know what to do. He has completely messed everything I hoped was normal up