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while i could hold a great deal of opinion on the concept of your having sex at 14, i think the best part here is that you're wanting to do it at a church. omg man. the church. cry more noob? youre insane.

i sympathize with your situation. While jujigatame may have some points as to what you could have done, the more pressing issue would remain as what you should do now. so what can you do? Your ex is turning your friends away from you. I think that if she even has the capacity to do that, that your friends may not be quite the caliber of friend you'd want. nevertheless, your interests are most likely in the nature to preserve these "friends" of yours. if that's the case, then the best you can do is to reconcile with your ex and your bad friend. It serves no one to harbor malicious feelings for anyone. Just let it go.