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  1. I’ve been seeing this guy (A) for about a month. I really like him. We have never had a discussion about exclusivity/not seeing other people. I do know that when we first started dating he was talking to other girls but told me recently that he has deleted dating apps from his phone. I had a really stupid (100% regret) one night stand with a friend of a friend (M). The sex was horrible, he was horrible and I really wish I hadn’t done it. Whilst me and A are not exclusive, I still feel so terrible about the whole situation. How should I proceed? Do I tell A about the one night stand? I’m scar
  2. I was with my ex for a year and a half, nearing to two years. We were together constantly and very in love. However, there were some issues during the relationship (different cultural backgrounds, different religious beliefs, him not wanting children) which led to him attempting multiple times to end things and then changing his mind because he "loves me too much". I loved him unconditionally and always took him back despite how much he hurt me. In hindsight, these are very real concerns and we should have discussed them at length but we decided to mostly repress them. He also did not value my
  3. Have you ever facetimed or anything like that? I think it's more likely that he's a catfish than in a relationship if he won't meet you and says he has no social media at all.
  4. I've met a really wonderful guy, he's caring, intelligent, successful and seems to be very serious about me. We have been dating for a while but I don't get butterflies or excited to see him. I feel guilty because he is wonderful and I don't know why I'm like this. I am disappointed because he is the perfect guy but I can't fake the feelings that he has for me. There are a few issues that I have with him, firstly he can be really immature and argumentative. I have spoken to him about this and he just laughs it off. Secondly the sex is really bad, I have offered to show him what I like but
  5. My boyfriend and I were together for almost two years, we had serious plans for the future and were deeply in love. In February (while we were in bed) I told him about the sexual abuse I had suffered for most of my childhood (he already knew about it but I told him the whole story). I told him everything that happened and cried (for the first time in my life) about it. He held me, comforted me and told me how much he loved me. I told him that I’d accepted what had happened but I wouldn’t know how to handle it if I found out there were victims after me (since I never reported it to the police,
  6. One of my close friends went through a break up a few months ago (as did I). We became really close helping each other through the pain and things turned into a friends with benefits situation. I don’t have romantic feelings for him. I do care for him very much and always want him to be well. We had a conversation today where he told me he misses his ex a lot. I tried to console him and suggested he texts her. He then made up an excuse so I told him to work on himself and on being happy, if things are meant to be then they’ll happen. He got annoyed at me and told me he’s going to sleep. I apol
  7. Hey thank you for your response. I agree, I think I should concentrate on the important things in my life right now.
  8. TW: sexual assault My boyfriend and I were together for almost two years, we had serious plans for the future and were deeply in love. In February (while we were in bed) I told him about the sexual abuse I had suffered for most of my childhood (he already knew about it but I told him the whole story). I told him everything that happened and cried (for the first time in my life) about it. He held me, comforted me and told me how much he loved me. I told him that I’d accepted what had happened but I wouldn’t know how to handle it if I found out there were victims after me (since I never repo
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