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  1. Probably. I personally think it has a lot to do with my growing up. Never had any siblings and no real friends when I was little, so I probably do not know how to behave in certain situations. Could it possibly be me lacking self-confidence? I have had that issue not only in this aspect of life. The main problem is I do not see what I do wrong when I chat. To give you a clearer picture, I try to be the guy who gives life advice(I myself having been through a lot since my father's passing), I'd be the one who's up all night trying to help you with a certain problem, or just listening to you. Every time the women I talk to end up being with other men who are (not my own opinion) slightly worse looking than me(sorry this is really not my own opinion, I asked many, many different people for advice and I do not want to come off as being rude). They consider me their "sweet friend", lol.
  2. Hey all. I'll just get to the point. Before I say anything, please do not think I'm bragging and trying to sound cool. If I wanted that, I wouldn't even be here. I'm a 20 year old male, 188cm in height(6 foot 2). I'm also a bit underweight for my height, but I exercise regularly so I look good. Anyways, I'm mentioning this because I do not think the issue is with my looks. As a matter of fact, taking into account looks, people tell me that on a scale of 1-10, I'd be a solid 8, leaning to 9. The problem is as follows. Girls get attracted to my looks, but it is probably the way I talk to them that makes them lose interest in me after around 10 days or so. When I was little, I was incredibly shy. I think I have learned to overcome that problem to a certain extent, but I'm definitely introverted and not the outgoing type. When I talk to girls, I feel as though I play the nice guy too much and they lose interest in me because of that. I get that this is wrong, but the reason is unknown to me. I mean, how can I balance between being the good guy and the "bad" guy?(please do not laugh, I'm being serious right now) I do not drown them with messages, I have my own time, but I simply feel like I'm boring to a girl. I seriously do not know how to help myself. Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks! -F
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