Hiya! I desperately need advice on giving myself a boot up the backside! I'm 22, I was dumped 3 years ago out of the blue and he completely tore my heart in two, I've never fully gotten over it, as hard as I've tried. Don't worry I've had the whole 'get over him' conversation with many friends many times . Since then, I've dated a handful of guys-all seems to be great for the first couple of weeks but then I get randomly dumped with no warning or explanation. I would love to find someone special as I have a lot of love to give but I just completely lack motivation to find anyone these days as every time I do, they run off! I don't know what I do wrong but it's made my self confidence completely plummet. Any words of wisdom??