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  1. I can't block (or I don't know on android lol, otherwise I would have) and honestly I never expected him to contact me again, I was surprised I guess and now he's making me like him again
  2. Yeah it is, I haven't been holding onto anything tbh I've been trying to move on, was doing well and then he's texted me out of the blue with this stuff, asking me if I hate him and stuff and then it lead to this
  3. My ex broke up with me about a month ago, after a huge fight I said some really hurtful things (and he did to me) and after that he ignored me for two solid weeks until he finally sent me a message saying that he didn't think he couldn't be in a relationship at the moment, was going through a hard time and needed a break from everything and that he wanted to remain friends because I was "nice to him." ​ About 2 weeks or so ago he reached out to me, started telling me he missed me and that he was upset that I wasn't talking to him since we decided to become friends. He then asked for a picture of my face and said he missed it, then we had a casual convo after that and I had sent him a text that he didn't reply to. Two days later he starts talking to me again, asks me for more pics (nudes, saying he missed my "beautiful body" and we talked for quite a while. ​ He was asking me things like if I was dating anyone else now, saying things like he wanted me to come over and was just acting all flirty etc, sent me a text saying "wyd" at midnight that I ignored because I didn't like the way he broke up with me (pretty much just ignored me instead of actually doing it), I apologized for not replying because I do still like him but at the same time I don't want to get my hopes up ​ He's also been trying to add me on facebook and has asked numerous times for me to accept but I don't know if it's a good idea so I kept declining it, now a few days have gone by before he's tried to contact me. ​ Why is he acting so hot and cold, what does it mean? (We're both 22 btw)
  4. Yeah true, the only reason I'm confused is because two days before he said he didn't think he could be in a relationship he tells me he didn't want to break up
  5. No this isn't the same boy, someone who was friends with him messaged me on FaceBook and told me he was cheating on me with a friend of us (turned out to be not true) and I just went off at him and said some really hurtful things. I know it would be more ideal to find someone close to me but this guy was one of a kind and I don't know how I feel about it being over for good
  6. My LDR boyfriend "broke up," with me after a fight. I had accused him of something and instead of listening to his side I was immature and kind of went off. I felt horrible about it and apologized the next day, and instead of responding to me he just kept ignoring my texts. I took that to mean he probably was breaking up with me and sent him a goodbye text apologizing again, then he finally replied and said that he didn't think he could be in a relationship at the moment and that if I loved him I would wait for him, but after talking for a bit he said he forgave me and ended the conversation with "ily." Then five days went by and I messaged him asking if he was okay and if we were still together, he said he was on vacation with his family and that he just needed a bit more time. I replied and then he replied back saying that he didn't think he could be in a relationship atm, needed a break from everything and that he was going through a hard time etc and then said he still wanted to be my friend. Then I replied to that and he replied 5 days later saying that he forgave me and that he'd been trying to contact me through text. I asked him if he could remove my name/change his pic (photo of us) if we weren't together anymore because my friends were asking, he removed my name from the bio but he kept the photo. I told him I understood and asked if it was just for now or if we were breaking up for good and he didn't really answer me, I'm just a little confused because he kept the photo of us as his profile picture and all he told me was that he needed this time to take a break from everything/figure himself out. I'm just left a little confused after all of this, I don't know if there's another girl involved or if he's just saying we're on a break/breaking up for good, and when I ask him he doesn't really answer me and if he does he takes days to reply (this is very unusual for him and I know he's been online/checking his phone so he's doing it on purpose) I love him and I feel horrible about what I did, but should I move on or wait this out? It doesn't seem like he's fully done yet but at the same time I don't know how long this is going to last (him not replying/messaging me) and it's starting to drive me crazy. Overall our relationship has been really good, talking every day, I've been going to see him every holiday I've had off school etc, I just don't know what to do right now though
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