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  1. The reason she doesn't tell anybody is because she's afraid for her life. She's telling me he is threatening to kill her if she ever tells anybody what he has told her. Things I can't even repeat on her, things he can go to jail for that she knows and has seen videos of. She feels she can't do anything.
  2. yes, i've seen this all first hand. she will call and facetime and hide her phone on her while she's working and shows me what everyone says and does.
  3. I do, and yes her and I have a brief sexual history that was years ago.
  4. She works overnight and he is friends with one of the overnight managers who doesn't do anything at all. They all allow this to happen at the store, nobody gives a single sh*t. It's disappointing. it happens all right in front of the manager.
  5. Hey everyone. I'm having an issue right now with my best friend. We're both in our mid 20's and have been best friends since we were 14. She recently met this 31 yr old guy at her job, he doesn't work there but he's friends with another employee and comes in daily to hang around his friend and my best friend. They've known eachother for a little over a month. From what I've heard from her and the texts I've read between them, he is VERY verbally abusive towards her and basically any woman he's ever been involved with. He will call her and other girls wh*res, b*tches, a ret*rd, etc.... very deg
  6. Thinking back to my last relationship that ended 2 years ago. It was a very toxic and emotionally abusive relationship. I was cheated on multiple times and treated with so much disrespect. Something that bothers me often when I think about it is when I had lost my virginity to him when we started dating 3 years ago. He was my first boyfriend and my only relationship. I still feel scared to date because of him. When I lost my virginity to him I told him we need to go purchase condoms because I wasn't in any way going to have sex unless we were protected. When we got back to the house and had se
  7. I've met this girl about 2 months ago in this new friend group I've been hanging out with. She's 26 and I'm 23. We're both girls. We've been friends and hung out a little in the beginning, and after about a month we started chilling more often and getting to know eachother more. Everyone has suspicions that we had a thing but we always joked around about it and never really asked eachother directly if either of us had feelings, but we both did and felt that vibe. We eventually confessed how we felt, and we've been a thing since. We aren't officially dating because we both want to get to kn
  8. *trigger warning* I've had a few things happen to me in my childhood involving other men and boys and because the situation wasn't as horrible or severe as someone else's experience, I always seem to minimize my experience compared to theirs. I never was raped, I never was penetrated. What happened to me was brief and it wasn't traumatic in the moment for me. So because of that, I have a hard time wondering if I really was molested or if I'm just being overly dramatic? One of the boys this happened with was my oldest cousin. He is a few years older than me, and when I was about between
  9. I'm having a hard time dealing with the fact that my ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend. I left him 3-4 months ago for cheating on me multiple times and many other negative things. He told me I was the best he has ever had and he said the next girl he dates, he will "think about me even when he's with her" and will "wish she was me". I feel that's really unfair if that were to happen. His new girl doesn't deserve that. He's a liar and very emotionally abusive and I know he will eventually abuse her too and probably cheat on her. She is totally head over heels for him, just like I was at the
  10. Hi, I'd appreciate it if you'd read the whole post. I'm in a really bad place right now and need some advice. Thank you.. If you had read my old posts, you know I was in an emotionally/mentally abusive relationship with a narcissist for 2 years. I left him about 3 months ago. It was really hard to do but at the same time he also made it easy for me. He cheated multiple times in the relationship, and the very last time he ended up giving me an STD which was the end for me. I should have walked away a lot sooner, I know. He was very good at manipulating and controlling me and other people, e
  11. He cheated on you. He has no respect for you or your feelings. He left you for her and didn't seem to care. Don't talk to him because you don't need him and his drama in your life.
  12. It is normal for you to still feel affected. You were in a relationship with an abusive Narcissist is what it sounds like. DO NOT reply to anything he sends you. He loves that you reply, he feeds off of it. When he randomly comes back into your life to "catch up" that's called 'hoovering' my dear. Look up that term, it's something narcissistic and manipulative people do to control their exes. Trust me.
  13. I don't think it is a good idea to contact him. If he has a girlfriend then definitely do not talk to him. Figure out why exactly you are missing him. Are you lonely? Was he good for you?
  14. I have currently been seeing a therapist for the last 2 years, it's been difficult to figure out the reason why I stayed with him for so long. I haven't exactly figured that out 100% yet. Maybe because this is my first relationship and I'm afraid of what else is out there. (Ex: Him telling me that I will never be happy with anybody else.) which scares me.
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