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  1. I say 10 because he has 5 children, one being a son that's only 10 years old, and 5 beautiful grandchildren. I'm not including myself in this number because I'm officially out of the picture. It's such a sad situation and personal story that confuses me when I think about it. Perhaps I can be a bit naive when it comes to love and relationships with men. I have a dream in hopes of finding someone who understands the true meaning behind the words honesty and integrity. My ex is not one of them. Costa Rica... When I first met him he mentioned spending time there in CR with his "fishing buddi
  2. After the incident last night and yet another blow to my self esteem, I'm beginning to wonder if he is possibly being unfaithful. That would explain his emotional distance too.
  3. I understand what you're saying in regards to communicating, but I guess what I want is a better understanding and an "allowance" to see what's inside him. I hear how men and women are wired differently... I get it. Perhaps I'm just being emotionally high maintenance. I've talked to him many times about wishing for more romance and spending more quality time together, but I haven't seen any initiative on his part. He just wants to watch tv, which doesn't count as quality time to me. We are intimate maybe a few times a month. Last night I decided to put a sexy outfit on just to see if I could s
  4. Thanks for giving me the advice. I honestly am not out to change him. I think you're right about what you said, though. I don't want to wait forever for something that will probably never happen.
  5. I've been with my fiancé for over 4 years now. He proposed to me a year and half ago and I'm not quite sure if there is enough substance to actually make any wedding plans in the near future. I realize that there is no perfect relationship and one must be strong when times are rough, but I've got too many unanswered questions. I'm just not sure what to do... He is a bit of a mystery to me. Elusive, withdrawn, empty, cold, and aloof are all words that come to my mind when I describe his character. We both are not big talkers, so communication is not our strong suit. However, I would like to h
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