Kuala

Day 80! 10 more days and another NC milestone!

Day 57!

Doing better but there are still times that good memories kill me but somehow listening to this song makes me alot better. Try listening to it as well guys, Jason Mraz's 3 Things. Goodluck to your healing!

Day 44..

Yeah! Day 30! Finish with the challenge but will continue NC for my healing & for myself! We can do it guys!

Block her!!!! You'll learn soon enough when you see something that you'll regret and it'll hurt so much that you won't ever do it again lol... trust me, it happened to me.

I agree! Even though I blocked her & she blocked me, I still cant fight my urge to look at her updates on FB using other peoples account (my parents FB..lol). Then when I saw her pictures with the new guy, I cant explain what I felt after seeing that. My body felt numb & I cant sleep again, just what I felt after the BU. So I suggest not to look at any social media sites especially FB. Stop now if you really want to heal from that failed relationship. I learned it the hard way. Stop now & move on with life.

Day 16

! See her & the new guy for the 1st time on FB. Somehow manage to control myself & dont feel anything after seeing it. Maybe reality will kick me sooner. We can do it guys!

Day 3:

Very bad day since I have her on my mind almost the whole day. Somehow, managed to stop myself to look at her FB but I think this is the reason why I felt like this the whole day. Gotta be strong! Listening to good music somehow removes her out of my mind. Watched a movie but everytime I see kissing or love scenes it made me think of her. So I think I'll stop watching movies for a while..lol! Be strong! I can do it!

Day 1:

I decided to text her for the last time & said "bye" to her which I dont know if it really is necessary to say. Also she may have changed her number as well so I am confuse if doing NC would really have an effect on her becoz it seems that she has really moved on. Btw, Im doing NC for myself & not for her.

I need some help.. I started to do NC with my 6 yrs girlfriend. We can still see updates of each other on Facebook since we have not blocked each other yet. I noticed that on one of her latest pictures that one of her relatives belittled me. She dumped me for another guy but her relatives thinks that it is all my fault why she dumped me & she just wasted her 6 yrs with me.

I want to inform my ex about this but since I am starting to do NC should I text her just to inform her about this thing or shoul I just keep it for myself & allow them to belittle me on Facebook where everyone can see it?

I need some good advice now. Please help me what I should to before I make any actions.