Working at trust

[sabena]

Hello. Just thought that I would give an update on my struggle with trust and jealousy. For those of you who don't know me, I basically have a major jealousy problem with my bf and because of this I find it hard to trust him. This may be because I have been cheated on in the past, that we have broken up once, that he flirts with other girls, and that previously he has gone away with female friends alone, leaving me and my imagination to work...But anyway, we are working at it and it is going really really well.

 

Last night I took a big step and told my bf that he could invite the girl he went away with and caused a lot of problems with, to a sporting event that we were going to go to. It took a lot of courage for me to do this because even though she is actually an ok girl right now I still have a little rage for her.

 

But anyway, he was pleased that I had said this but told me no, he would not ask her..and I was happy at this..

 

but I can't wait for the day when I stop feeling insecure and jealous...and starting trusting him more..

[charmed]

Hi Sabena !

 

I've followed your story a bit since it started a few months ago, and you have shown brilliant energy and great interest in your own personal development. You are a great example to those who are looking for the courage to change themselves for the better !

 

Keep up the development, it is paying off already !!!