Should I go for it even tho it'll ruin my reputation??

[god_why_me]

i have like this girl for 6 years already. im a bi and i dont know if she's is one too. who knows? i have a bf and she does also, but it doesnt mean she's competely straight. should i tell her how i feel about her. i know i have NO CHANCE with her. ABSOLUTELY NO CHANCE. NADA! but should i? she's really popluar and if i tell her, im afraid it'll ruin my reputation cause im still in the closet about my sexuality. if you were me, would you tell her? please answer.

[MollyElise]

Nope! This is one better kept in your head and revealed @ the 10 year reunion after you've drank too much wine. No point in saying anything now... if something happens between yall, then lovely, but DO NOT go telling this chick that you find her attractive...

[Mar]

I agree.....better to keep your feelings to yourself, especially if you know you don't have a chance in hell. There's no sense in ruining things for yourself when she's got a boyfriend, is popular, and would most likely make you the laughingstock of the school/workplace/wherever you two are. Not to mention your b/f's feelings...does he know about this? If not, how do you think he'd feel about it? I would definitely suggest keeping this under your hat until you can find a safer place to meet other bisexuals/lesbians, clubs and such.

[Resseyluv]

Hey, My name is Ressey. You cant help who you have feelings for. and if you really care for someone who cares what other people think. You have to live your life for you. and you have to make yourself happy. so do you... much, much love