Guys: Would shyness make u run away from your crush?

[Naomi]

Guys only,please! Have you ever gotten so overwhelmed with anxiety or shyness when you have found yourself alone with the girl you have a crush on, that you make an excuse to get away from her as fast as possible? For the sake of argument, yes, you really do like and are attracted to the girl!

[mrniceguy15]

nope. if i found myself alone w/ the girl I'd start the conversation. When else are you going to get the chance to be alone w/ the girl besides on a date/lunch/etc.

[Karhu]

this depends on the individuals self confidence.

 

I'd just talk to them, enjoy the company. however i know if someone had a low self confidence then they might feel ashamed of them selves, try to put the woman up on a pedestal, making it hard for them to come up with a decent conversation, causing anxiety, and then fear, and then a desire to get out of this crash-burn situation.

[Locke2121]

Sure...I've passed by several beautiful women because of my shyness.

 

And regretted every one of them. May I ask, are you the girl?

[Parsley]

I know I'm not a guy - but I do this. Even more so if I know they like me too. I clam up completely and can't make eye contact for more than the briefest of seconds before seizing the opportunity to get far away from them. It's quite aggrivating.

[Naomi]

Yes, I am the extremely baffled,hurt girl.The guy is always in my space and looks for reasons to talk to me, my friends all say he is into me but all of a sudden we found ourselves alone he was fine up until than and boom: he basically made an excuse that he had to leave and literally ran away from me. What gives?

[Locke2121]

Performance anxiety. Next time....sit on him. Many times, a shy guy needs a forceful push to get him to open up. So, next time when its just the two of you, push him onto the sofa, say your going to go get a couple of drinks, water, soda it doesn't matter. When you come back, sit in his lap and don't let him get away.

 

He'll loosen up...well in most parts he'll loosen up.

[Clementine orange]

In a word, yes

[cpc28655]

Neither anxiety nor shyness has made me walk away like that. However, resentment has (and not resentment toward her either).

[scotty77]

Shy people freeze whenever they are around someone that they are attracted to.It is sad but true.

[cpc28655]

Sure...I've passed by several beautiful women because of my shyness.

 

And regretted every one of them. May I ask, are you the girl?

 

Yes, I am the extremely baffled,hurt girl.The guy is always in my space and looks for reasons to talk to me, my friends all say he is into me but all of a sudden we found ourselves alone he was fine up until than and boom: he basically made an excuse that he had to leave and literally ran away from me. What gives?

 

When I first read these 2 posts I misunderstood. I thought you were asking if she was the beautiful girl you passed by. This proves I need a vacation, lol.

[Leonhart]

Sure, I think I have done this before.