mintblossom Posted April 2, 2007 Share Posted April 2, 2007 have you ever dated anyone that was nice to everyone else BUT you? i remember this guy that i dated...he was so mean to me. he didnt start out that way, but let's just say by the time we ended it, he had hung up the phone on me, ignored me during the holidays, and my birthday, i think he purposely waited the day after valentine's to send me a happy valentine reply to my email, slammed the door in my face, yelled at me, called me weird, made me watch him eat at a restaurant, was really cheap to me, rolled on his back away from me right after sex, told me he liked blondes when i have black hair, promised to go places with me that we never ended up going, never told me he was moving and in general....treated me like dirt. BUT the thing is....with other people, his friends...everyone else..he acted like the nice guy, the good guy, he bought his friends things, treated them politely, respectfully, was witty, funny, charming, donated to charity......listened to his friends on the phone and gave them advice... i mean, it was so insulting and humiliating to be treated so badly and to have put up with it becaused i liked him at the time. ](*,) but how nice he was to everyone else was like rubbing salt in my wounds. what gives?? (however, a coworker did tell me that he hated him because he treated him like he was subhuman). i didn't understand...he seemed to have a dual nature. and at times i would question if he really was so bad to me because he was so nice to everyone else. Link to comment
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