Morgy Posted April 1, 2007 Share Posted April 1, 2007 Hi everyone, I have only posted a few times, but over this week I have read some interesting posts and I am at a loss with my own self At the momemt. I date this girl who I thought was a fantastic person, someone who I thought came into my life at the right time after everything I had been through. We have has this on and off thing happening for 6 weeks and each time she pushed me away and then pulled me back in a week later saying that she missed me and loved me. She used to date this Friend / Boss at work, someone she was also friends with for 6 years apparently. They dated 5 years ago and didnt work and then for a month last year and didnt work ( he broke it off ). She said she was relieved that it didnt work when he broke it off. Well after about 2 and half months down the track after he found out she was seeing someone ( me ), he started with the I want you now which left her in confusion !! What progressed over the weeks was her having confused feelings and always coming back to me. So with this I thought she wanted to be with me and that he wouldnt let it go. She would tell me that she missed me, was in love with me and everything I needed to hear to pull me back in. 2 weeks ago she wanted me to move into a house with her, so thinking thats the kind of committment she wanted I agreed cause I thought she cared enough. What I didnt see before me was the game that was being played between those two and I was just the pawn in the game. I treated this girl sooo well, gave her love and affection and do anything for her. I loved her kids like they were my own and yet i couldnt understand why she was hot and cold ?? I swear cause he knew she was seeing someone that suddenly he wanted her back and then played this want you, dont want you game with her cause he knew how to push her emotional buttons. So all the time I thought she wanted to be with me really I was just the fall back guy ! I dont know whether this makes sense to anyone ?? We moved in last weekend to a house and she had been talking to this guy and when she does talk to him she changes, thats a pattern I noticed. She becomes stressed and then pushes me away.. Well he must of said something enough for her to say... I am not happy and I am not in love with you the next day and hence I had to move out. love me one day and not the next is not a normal thing to do. I really have this feeling that all along I have been used as a pawn or a fall back guy in this situation. That feeling alone is not a nice one especially when All I did was be the best partner to her and her children... It was always about her and her needs and never mine. Why do people do this ??? Its not fair Link to comment
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