i hate her

[nosoul]

ok so my b/f is friends with this girl who i used to b friends with until, my boyfirend started to hang out with her.okay so a few months ago i tell her that when i seen her with my boyfriend i got jealous, she then makes plans with him for last weekend fast forward it is now friday of this weekend, my boyfriend leaves, i go on msn and when he gets home he msgs me and he tells me has been lieing to me, that he doesnt think we should b together.we didnt break up he wanted me to sleep on it and make the decision. okay so saturday friend comes over we go out come home i get my b/f to call we are talkin and i wanna know exactly what happened last weekend: my brother tells me that she touched his leg and my boyfriend pushed her away. my boyfriend tells me that he held her. so i am p.oed so today im talkin to her and i flip out because she is saying all this stuff and she is comin between me and my boyfriend. so then everything is good cuz he was suppose to spend time with her today but intead he come over here after her friend called me names and i balwed on the phone to him.then he leaves i go on the computer and she is all nice so when i go up to my room and talk to her on my computer when no one is around she gets all pissy and gets her brother involved but anyway my boyfriend is still friends with her and he wont stop being friends with her, i do not wanna dump him but she is stressing me out and she is comin between us. and i cant handle it.she makes me look bad, she copied and pasted a coverstaion i had with her today to my b/f and she showed him all the stuff i said, nothing about what she said , so when he came over i showed him the whole converstaion.and he still is friends with her , he sticks up for her, and i feel like im nothing to him. i have been with him for almost 2 years and it shouldnt have to end beacuse of her.

[mintblossom]

i totally think girls are so good at sensing which girls are threatening to their relationships. omg, in my first year of college, i was dating this guy and he had this friend....."jenny"...AHH! i hated her. she was always flirting with him and flirting with all the guys. i don't think i said anything to him about it, but he did mention she was a good friend. gag...

 

when we broke up, she was all over him. i dont think they ever went out, but i remember feeling a little jealous....but mostly i just didnt like her cuz of the way she was. i thought she was fake peppy.

 

men can be really dense on purpose. but i felt a little better because my good friend validated me. god, i remember i couldn't stand her.

[handsdown]

I say dump him. This has nothing to do with this stupid girl. If he cared at all how you felt he would never associate with someone who is so obviously disrespectful to you.

 

It's never possible for someone to "come between" a relationship unless there is a space there to be filled.

[Daligal83]

If he tells you that he doesn't think you should be together and is spending time with this girl who is hitting on him, then why are you still around? I would blame your boyfriend, not just the girl.