setsuko1981 Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 Previous Post 173786[/url] ON robowarrior's response: "If you expose your heart while its not mutual, you are just opening yourself up for a lot of pain." When he said that, it struck me me really well. That's the mistake that I had done in the past and I think that's the mistake that I'm doing now, with this girl that I'm interested in. This girl in the past has caused me to close my heart on a chance for romance, that is until I saw this other girl that I'm really into now. From what I'm seeing with her and I, she knows that I like her, but she's still on that "getting to know me better" friendship stage and yet with me, I feel like I already opened my heart to her, that it would hurt if I get turned down. I've tried backing down, but nothing seems to work. So my questions are: Is there a cause that makes a person to open his/her heart to another person too early? How can you prevent yourself from opening up your heart when the feeling is not yet mutual? Link to comment
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