broke up and see him all the time

[SeaBisquit]

ok, can someone tell me what is going on with him? for the past two weeks i have seen my ex almost everyday. i can't drive ( due to a heart condition). so i have to walk pretty much everywhere i have to go. there is a store that i go to by my house and no matter what time i go there he is there. i tried talking to him once when i saw him there and he didn't want to talk to me. then i saw him and his wife driving down the road the next day both of them were fighting really bad then they turned down the road directly in front of my house.

 

now his brother started going out at the same bar that i go out at and he spends the whole night staring at me. i try to ignore him but it bothers me alot. i think that my ex has him watching me to see if i'm with anybody. could i be right?

[forgiveand4get]

I see you mentioned that he has a wife. Is that why ya'll are no longer together?

 

As far as his brother goes I think that it is very possible. Maybe he still has feelings for you and wants to make sure that you are ok.

[northwoods]

So your ex didn't want to talk and is re-married? I'm guessing that you might be reading more in to what's here. Perhaps you're running in to him by coincidence?

[AwdreeHpburn]

why don't you ask his brother?

[arwen]

Hey bisquit!

 

I think that regardless of his intention, you are better of without him. If anything, this 'stalkish' behaviour proves that you deserve better and more in a relationship.

 

Just IGNORE it and if it gets worse, get him a restraining order. Is it possible to take taxis for a while instead of walking? Can you cycle in your town?

 

Arwen

[SeaBisquit]

he left his wife for me. we broke up he went back to live with his wife. he told me he wants to get back with me and i told him no. i also told his wife everything. no i see him all the time, it's not a coincidence. he is driving 15 miles out of his way to pass in front of my house.

[SeaBisquit]

hi arwen.

no taxis in my town. this is a very small town. i think you answered my question tho. i feel like he is stalking me. i talk to a counselor and she thought the same. she also feels it will get worse.

[MasterT]

"Someone should come up with a man-woman dictionary. Something like those English-French ones"

 

Hahahaha, I like that. Funny signature.

[SeaBisquit]

thanks masterT

[arwen]

hi arwen.

no taxis in my town. this is a very small town. i think you answered my question tho. i feel like he is stalking me. i talk to a counselor and she thought the same. she also feels it will get worse.

 

If he's going out of his way to pass by your house, and you can show that somehow to authorities, I'd opt for a restraining order. This is not good for you. He was bad news, and he still is. Do you have any idea why he keeps going back and forth between you and his exwife? If you see him again, tell him that you don't want him in your life, and you never will. That he should leave you alone. If things still continue, please contact the police.

 

Take care sweetie. Better times will come for you, along with a much better guy.

 

Arwen