Tigger6145 Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 Hello all, How long should it be before you have the DTR convo? I guess it does depend on the circumstances surrounding the "relationship" but say you guys "hang out/go out" 5 of 7 days a week. How long do you think it should take before someone mentions the "what are we convo"? We have had the let's take it slow convo because I just got out of a serious relationship about 4 months ago, but we haven't really had the what are we or where do we see this going (ie casual dating, relationship, etc.) convo. He has mentioned that he wants me to met his brother and his best friend who lives in Alabama. He talks about us as if we will still be together over the summer, etc. However, we have never really had the talk about what we are which I would like to have because I would feel more comfortable talking about certain things, opening up to him, and allowing myself to really fall for him more than I have already if I know that we are exclusive. We have not slept together yet - I won't sleep with someone unless I am in love with them and we are exclusive. I am starting to fall for this guy and I guess I just want to know if he feels the same way although by his actions and what he says I think he is falling for me too. Anyway, I have said more than I thought I would. Do you guys think it is okay for the girl to bring up the DTR convo or should I let him do it? I would like to be exclusive with him but I don't want to freak him out if he thinks it is too soon. BTW, I am 23 and he is 25. Link to comment
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