JoeWho Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 So after listening to all my friends tell me to start dating again and try online dating, I gave it a go the other night. The problem I am having is that I am overwhelmed by responses. Its a little ridiculous actually. I just dont know exactly what to do about the all the girls who message me. I absolutely hate to reject people especially girls I would be interested in, but I cant talk to 20 girls at once. So what am I supposed to do with the girls who I am interested in but cant talk to yet because of the other handful of girls that I started talking to before them? Do I send them a brief message saying I liked their profile or just ignore them for the time being and contact them if things dont work out with the a few other girls? I really have no clue how this whole online dating works and it seems fun, but I definitely dont want to hurt anyones feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clementine orange Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 Woah, what did I do wrong? See another post from today on this very subject. Do you mind if I copy _your_ profile? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lunatic Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 WOW tell me about it! What the heck is wrong with my profile??? Yikes I would also like to copy your profile. haha Well it could be worse and have NO Responses or have responses from women that your not at all attracted to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickidee23 Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 The best thing about online dating is that hurting feelings isn't much of a problem. These people probably have just as many people to pick and choose from as you do. I would read through the profiles of the girls who respond and if they interest you, talk to them. If you aren't, it's no big deal. I'm sure everyone has a few messages they don't respond to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 be an online player. talk to them all. find one that you click with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iwantittoend Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 be an online player. talk to them all. find one that you click with. I agree with this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayar Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 Talk to them all! It isn't being a player... It's dating! And then cut loose the dead weight as you go. I'm in the same boat as you (so many guys, so little time, haha) but on the flip side I'm very picky and demanding so not many make the cut. It's good you can afford to be choosy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 Talk to them all! It isn't being a player... It's dating! And then cut loose the dead weight as you go. I'm in the same boat as you (so many guys, so little time, haha) but on the flip side I'm very picky and demanding so not many make the cut. It's good you can afford to be choosy! i was being facetious about the word player. sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dating Coach Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 You can talk to several girls at once. You are not committing to any of them and you don't even know if they will work out so don't limit yourself. Talk to as many as you feel like. The ones you don't want to talk to, either tell them you're not interested or join the norm of online dating and don't even respond. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeWho Posted March 29, 2007 Author Share Posted March 29, 2007 You guys are right, I'll just talk to as many as I can and filter them out. For you guys that want to copy my profile.....let the bidding begin...jk lol Seriously I just kept it honest and brief, thats all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 copy your profile for what? i can create my own bs profile just fine thank you. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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