not interested?

[joe-bloe]

I asked a girl out last week. We met one night got along great with lots to talk about. Anyway, she said she was busy but maybe some other time.

 

Thats was a week ago ,I have been kind of waiting for her to call me .I already let it be known that I am interrested, I figure she'll let me know if she wants to go out. I havent heard from her for a week. Do I ask again or forget about it.

 

If I do ask what should i say?

[Dating Coach]

Call her up and ask her out on another date, and have a specific time and place in mind. Get back to us after you do this.

[scotty77]

Sorry, but I don't think she is interested.I would move on.If she was interested she would have gone out of her way and made time to be with you.Oh well,she's not the only little girl in the world,right? Just move on!!

[Maverick32x]

Just call her, suck up your pride and give it a shot.... traditionally its seen that a guy chases a girl... maybe thats her expectations for a growing relationship? or maybe she is shy? either way, just by saying you're interested, doesnt really tell her that much about how interested you really are......

 

However, I'm not too sure on your approach to her.. you guys met? and talked... than you asked her out? and she said she was busy? or did she give you her number and you called her? or what? I'm a bit confused.. fill in a couple blanks of the story and I might rethink my initial advice...

[Iceman26]

Call her up and ask her out again. If she says she is busy tell her to give you a call to schedule a date when she isn't busy and move on to other women.

 

If she calls, great, if not, there are plenty of others out women out there.

[Wotgorilla]

Sorry my friend, but where I come from, if someone gives you the "busy" line it more often than not means they're not interested. She would have called by now.

 

Dan on Long Island.

[ghost69]

tell her where you are going. tell her she is going. no ifs ands or buts.