JDMxTeGrA101 Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Well this chick I really like told me she's dating someone else also. I mean don't you guys find it wrong if a girl your talking to is dating someone else? I mean we don't go out but if she really wanted to work it out why would she date someone else? She told me she only wants him for his money because he took her to a shopping spree and she's only serious with me. I haven't bought her anything but paid for her movies/food. She called me up earlier and told me she's going with him tonight somewhere and I just told her i'll talk to her tomorrow and hung up. It's so wrong I swear but something about her I really like. Link to comment
exigent Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Man, you seriously need to back away from this girl...she sounds selfish. Find another cute girl to date that doesn't use other ppl for material things. Link to comment
JDMxTeGrA101 Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 she is and she doesn't even want me to see other girls. I don't have any right now but her and if I just drop her then I won't have any girls at all. That's the reason why I want to keep going and there's something about her I really like Link to comment
ealmdm Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Ok, what could you possibly like about a girl who uses people for their money? There is just something extremely wrong with someone who would do that ... don't you think so? Seriously, I think you could do much better than someone who acts like that ... Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 How old are you? Seriously, there's plenty of fish in the sea, dude! She sounds so immature and selfish. She told you she's only serious about you and not him, but she's spending all of her time with him and told you she's using him. What's to like about her? How do you know she's not just using you in case things with him don't work out? Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 she is and she doesn't even want me to see other girls. I don't have any right now but her and if I just drop her then I won't have any girls at all. That's the reason why I want to keep going and there's something about her I really like OMG NO YOU'LL BE SINGLE!! quick! the earth has spun off its rotation!! lol, aww sweetheart, you really cant put up with being played by a selfish little moo just becuase shes cute. There are PLENTY of great chicks out there who will be sincere and true to you!! You know "single" is our natural state, right? its not like you're missing a limb or anything if you're not in a relationship. and shes a call girl... sex for money... Now, I have nothing against sex workers, but its not really fair for her to be doing that and then asking you to stay "loyal" Link to comment
JDMxTeGrA101 Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 No she's not having sex with him because she's not like that. Well I'm mostly with her, this is like the first that we didn't go out today Link to comment
poke Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 sounds like she is pretty shallow mate. I'd be telling her that if she wants you, then she only dates you. Have some respect for youself, and dont get into a situation where you feel second best. Take steps to make sure you will be ok. Link to comment
solarplexus Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 I would suggest you to stay away and close all the doors for her. She already told you that she is after someone for his money and she see this as a normal behavior. God save you in a relation with such a person. May sound a bit harsh. But the truth is there. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 No she's not having sex with him because she's not like that. She told me she only wants him for his money because he took her to a shopping spree. Sorry, I dont believe she isnt sleeping with him for a second. You are being played... hard... Link to comment
Haven Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 There's a difference between wanting to be with this girl, and just wanting to be with someone. If you could have ANY girl in the world, would you still want to be with her? Link to comment
Siriana Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 She told me she only wants him for his money because he took her to a shopping spree and she's only serious with me. I haven't bought her anything but paid for her movies/food. Are you rich and stupid? If not run. No she's not having sex with him because she's not like that. LOl, yeah, right, and he's buying her stuff for not getting any... No, she's not like that - she only goes out with him because of shopping sprees, she's very moral.... Link to comment
Karhu Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 and what do you want to achieve? to be a third wheel? even if she wasn't so emotionally and materealistically selfish you still wouldent want to be the third wheel. se can't have everyone hanging on, only one or the other. being a third wheel only brings unhappyness. I'd walk away. if she really was into you she would have left the other guy and sharted a clean relationship with you. but she's into the other guy (for money?) so you can't start a clean realtionship with her now. Link to comment
TheFoglifter Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 ... yeah, right, and he's buying her stuff for not getting any..." Yeah seriously! Materialistic women are expensive vices. Men ONLY put up with them as long as they are "earning their keep". No man is going to keep throwing good money after bad once the sex dries up, unless he was STUPID enough to fall head over heels in love. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 my buddy was in this situation before. but when the money man asked her to move in, she did and ditched my buddy. this chick is bad news. Link to comment
JDMxTeGrA101 Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 Yeah maybe I should start NC since I already talked to her bestfriend. Her bestfriend wants us to go out already but I told her everything and she said that I should talk to her face to face but I don't even feel like seeing her anymore. I hope she realized what she lost Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 what if the guy wasn't buying her stuff and she still said she didn't like him though? she is still seeing someone else. Link to comment
JDMxTeGrA101 Posted March 29, 2007 Author Share Posted March 29, 2007 yeah these kind of girls i should stay away from and this goes for the other guys out there. MATERIALISTIC girls ehh? Link to comment
Goblin Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 Shes using that guy for his money and that is a cheat. A cheat is a cheat man. Youre only allowing her to break ur heart if u continue chasing after her. Find someone else whos as true as you. Link to comment
JDMxTeGrA101 Posted March 30, 2007 Author Share Posted March 30, 2007 But I don't chase after her. She did this like 2-3 times already and she keeps coming back to me. Like right now she hasn't called me for 2 days but when I was online last night she im'd me and I said I had to go. I bet tomorrow which is Friday she's going to ask to hang out with me and my friends. I don't want to be mean but guys what should I say?? Link to comment
Siriana Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 Oh, sorry, we are going out with our girlfriends. Link to comment
p_fred Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 Get lost.. go see you money man Maybe that is extreame.. the other option is invite her along but do not pay for her anymore.. see how long she sticks around. Seriously, she sounds like bad news. Perhaps the thing you like about her is watching her manipulate people.. sooner or later you will be on the other side and it won't be so pretty. Perhaps she will turn your friends against you.. or tell people things that you have told her in confidence... keep your guard up and your eyes open. Its time to look at her true character, the way she treats other people is a sign of the way she will eventually treat you. Link to comment
JDMxTeGrA101 Posted March 31, 2007 Author Share Posted March 31, 2007 Well I only pay for her sometimes. Like last week she bought me just food and when we watched movies she paid for her and her friend. I paid for my own ticket. Today no call which I'm surprised. Its not that I'm waiting for her call but yeah I can manage without her but my friends say just stick with her and do what she is doing to me. Like hangout with her whenever I feel like it as long as she's not FIRST priority. Link to comment
Siriana Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 Don't do that. Thats bad advice. Bad energy and perfect way to repel good girls willing to date you! Link to comment
EvaGina Posted April 2, 2007 Share Posted April 2, 2007 But I don't chase after her. She did this like 2-3 times already and she keeps coming back to me. Like right now she hasn't called me for 2 days but when I was online last night she im'd me and I said I had to go. I bet tomorrow which is Friday she's going to ask to hang out with me and my friends. I don't want to be mean but guys what should I say?? say: Im sorry but I dont want to date you anymore. I dont want to be with someone who thinks is acceptable to sleep around for the sake of money. being mean is fine, she needs a REALLY BIG KICK in order to realise that she is in effect a prostitute. If shes fine with that, then thats cool, but she can hardly expect to forge meaningfull relationships while she is soliciting. Link to comment
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