emma34 Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 So we've been "broke up" for 2 days now...our break up was very ambiguous...he wanted to have a break and at the time, i was angry and wouldn't have it, so we broke up. There was no closure, no talk...nothing. Since, I've done a lot of thinking and have realized we can work it out and I love him, and I'm starting to see what went wrong. anyway, i'll get to the point...right now I know we both need time apart...at least I know I do, because I need to work out why I became so insecure over the last couple of months, and why I lashed out at him so much. What I want to say to him is: "i love you and i know we can work it out. I do think time apart is good for us though, especially since I am so busy right now. (obviously theres more I'd like to say but what went wrong...but whatever)" I also want to know how he feels - like it's possible that he doesn't want to work it out in that case I need to hear "it's over" or something Anyway, it's been 2 days. I know I should wait to tell him this, but I want to get this out on the table BEFORE we have our time apart. At the same time I want time to leave for him to cool off... so how long do I wait?? I thought maybe 5 days and then I'd call him..but then I'm thinking maybe I'll just do a quick short email, get it out there...what do you guys think? Link to comment
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