EmotionalCreature Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 How many of us guys here have uncontrollable erection? Not talking about erection in public places, etc. I am talking about when you're with your partner and just want to hug or hold her then you have an erection. Also when about to start having sex, during the foreplay, you have an erection way before your women touch you? I think it takes the fun out of foreplay and some women do not appreciate this in both circumstances. I feel that my partner doesn't like this, woman might want to seduce a man into feeling sexually charged, not open up to find a ready-to-go product every time. Has anyone managed to get rid of this pattern? How? It's so frustrating! Am I just unusual? I want to fix this. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 Some women would be very flattered that they have that kind of effect on their fellow. This is a standard guy problem. Let me guess, you are a teen or 20 something? Link to comment
needopinions Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 dude...my boyfriend is 35 years old and all I have to do is whisper something in his ear and he's ready to go...it's totally normal. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 Most guys can get an erection from the slightest stimulation... as CO said, tis flattering... Link to comment
EmotionalCreature Posted March 27, 2007 Author Share Posted March 27, 2007 I am 27 and been with my partner for 10 years, still having that problem.. Link to comment
evidica Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 wait till your like me and cant get it up when you know your not supposed to. When I was with my girlfriend, I went to a strip club with my friends (she made me I swear) and I was getting a lap dance. I was thinking of her the whole time and the stripper was getting so pissed becuase I wasnt getting hard. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 OK, to be totally honest, I'm actually kind of getting aroused from this thread alone. Whispering in ear...ready to go....stimulation...seduce....erection.... I think I'd better call my g/f tonight (if she is still talking to me that is) In all seriousness, the real trouble begins when you DON'T get erections - you'll dream of these days... Link to comment
Jayar Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 I honestly don't think it would be a problem for ANY woman who is past the "point-and-laugh" age... Link to comment
EmotionalCreature Posted March 27, 2007 Author Share Posted March 27, 2007 OK, I know you guys saying that its better than having no erections when needed. But please, to me this is a problem, thank you. I can kind of feel that my partner is not impressed about it. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 You could, how can I put this, "have a little personal time" before you get together with her - that might slow things down a bit. I've heard there is medication for this kind of thing but I'm not sure. Or if you are in a cuddle situation then maybe try thinking of something else - quantum physics, or baseball, grubernatorial district boundries or something non sexual. Beyond this, your g/f needs to know more about men Link to comment
needopinions Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 you haven't told us your age yet. I think that is the starting point to us understanding why this is a problem for you. Link to comment
southerngirl Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 Just tell her its because she is so hot and sexy. Seriously, I would think that would be a total turn on. I know it is since my husband has that problem.......... I think its sooo cool. It is much better than when it wont get up when you want it to get up! Link to comment
Devchonka Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 "personal time"...EXACTLY. Masterbate before you go out. That should keep the little friend at bay a bit more. Honestly...i don't see where your problem is. I would find it very flattering if the guy has an erection because of me. It makes no difference whether i had to MAKE it happen...actually...i think i would like it more for the fact that *looking at me* and *thouching me* gets him arroused, rather than me trying to get it up. It's not a "problem". If your female finds it to be odd...well...masterbate. When hugging, shift her to your side instead of having her stand (or lay) centered between your legs. Be creative. Honestly i dont like the girls who make it a big deal or have an unpleasing reaction to it (when its their boyfriend)...this speaks about their maturity level very well. Link to comment
Q10 Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 Wear briefs before meeting with her It keeps "things" in place so it doesn't poke out. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 your g/f needs to know more about men exactly... she sounds young. Link to comment
sddeaston Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 she sounds young. Yes, this is what I was thinking. Personally I would think she is a prude, and would not have much to do with her anyways. Link to comment
jimthzz Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 first off, you should not be apologizing or feeling badly for getting hard in the presense of your gf. Whether or not she wants to get sexual with you, it is normal for a guy, epecially a younger guy, to get erections that they cannot "stop" from occurring. If it bugs her, she needs to learn more about male sexuality. Link to comment
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