shy2cool Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 I'm trying to build my confidence up... I sometimes eat at this restaurant and there are seats right beside the window... anyway, I glance at the women that walk past that I find kinda cute or attractive, trying to get a response from them. Is this a bad thing to do? I don't stare, just glance, and maybe shyly look away if I get caught. Link to comment
hosswhispra Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 I think it's normal. Everyone does it. Link to comment
DropToZero Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 I'm trying to build my confidence up... I sometimes eat at this restaurant and there are seats right beside the window... anyway, I glance at the women that walk past that I find kinda cute or attractive, trying to get a response from them. Is this a bad thing to do? I don't stare, just glance, and maybe shyly look away if I get caught. Umm...don't look away, keep looking at them, and smile. There's no such thing as getting caught. My friend had found this quote, "kiss with your eyes open, because even if you get caught, what can they say?" lol. Anyways, hold your *glance* and see if she keeps looking too, make her look away first, make her blush from you looking at her. Just make sure you're not glaring or making some scary face haha Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 you are in a social environment. who cares. look all you want to. i doubt you will meet someone at a restaurant like that though. it's a weird setting for a woman to seem interested unless she is looking. Link to comment
Biffy Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 Umm...don't look away, keep looking at them, and smile. There's no such thing as getting caught. My friend had found this quote, "kiss with your eyes open, because even if you get caught, what can they say?" lol. Anyways, hold your *glance* and see if she keeps looking too, make her look away first, make her blush from you looking at her. This is good advice - in any setting, not just at one particular restaurant. Look, (it's likely that she'll look as well) DO NOT look away when she does look (let her do that) it's likely she'll look back once she has looked away. If she does, smile, if she smiles back say "Hi" Link to comment
CrazyKing Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 I do it a dozen times per day, but keep in mind that always looking may sometimes cause you to get fantasies about having relationships and that sort of things with some girl who you find superb - that can cause some depression if you don't get what you want after a few months staring around at them...so was my first times, LOL... Keep going, that is a good way to find someone, actually... I'm sure, there will be some moment when you spot someone the same time she spots you (rrrrrr, a great experience) Link to comment
hosswhispra Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 I have been doing it with everyone I see now. I like to see what reaction I will get out of them (if any reaction occurs). It is like a little social science experiment that I have been conducting. I look at everyone and smile very coy at them. Practice makes perfect. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 experiment? it's human nature. Link to comment
hosswhispra Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 ^ Yes, but I am rather scientific. So I often think of things from that perspective Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 well, i bet you will have more reactions the more you do it. Link to comment
Leonhart Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Eye contact is so key. Even I see that now. You just sit there and look at someone. If they return your glance... ooh, words can't describe the feeling. It's like, "Yeah... that's right." lol Now, if they DON'T return your gaze, then it sucks. But you can't let that get to you and have to keep trying with other girls. Still, my point is, I can see why eye contact is THE number one flirting tactic and sign people use! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 just bacause some chick looks away or doesn't return your gaze, doesn't mean you have to quit with her. Link to comment
Leonhart Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 No, but what's the point though? lol Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 wil, i think you take stuff too wholeheartedly. first time i've ever used that word. anyways, just because you look at a girl and she seems to turn away, try again. so what if she looked away. you give up so easily. Link to comment
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