alexdublin79 Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 Me (27) an my fiancee (24) split up recently. We have a 2 year old daughter and are not sure what to do at the moment. We still get on fine and live well together. So far we decided to live together as friends for the child's sakes. Things are very calm at the moment. Just wondered if there is someone who knows or about it as neither of us want to make a bad decision for the little one as we both agree that if we should be living apart eventually we should see her equally regarding upbringing etc.... . Also wondered what the 2 of us should do. We were going out for 5 years + and had one hell of a time. I cheated 1 time drunken after 7 months. She cheated a few months ago. She forgave me then and i did the same now. Although it was hard as she did it a day after we got engaged. After that we said we still give it a go cause we didn't want to through it all away for a drunken night. But it seems that she is the one who couldn't get over her own cheat. So she told me she wouldn't love me anymore and well split. The thing is we split last Friday spent all weekend alone and crying our eyes out. Now we said we'll live together but split for the little one. We just not sure about our relationship at all. We don't seem to be able to get away from each other at all. We are split now but we've already slept together again (cause now w are more attracted to each other than before) and cuddled in front of the telly and now as we are 'split' it seems better than ever. Now I for myself have no idea whats going on anymore. Please ask for more info and give me some help..cause I really dont know whats going on anymore P.S> and a another main ? is is it worth throwing a relation ship like this away just because the other partner wants one nightstands...which is what i think it is pretty much about with her?I mean if you have such great times together, are able to dance and party and live together excellently as well as being still super attracted to each other...is that worth it throwing it all away for sex? ( Not that i like it that she will but i just don't know ..help!!!!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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