need2bme Posted March 27, 2007 Share Posted March 27, 2007 it was time to have sex. (if this is not the proper forum, please move it or let me know where to post it). OK, we decided, but we had help from the music, drinks and the fact that her BF and my ex basically don't feel the same way about us, as we do about them. Now of course, as one can imagine, there is a small problem and that is that I think she actually wants more than friendship. She says she is fine with all of this, but she does other things that make me think she is not. For instance, she gets up on the couch behind me and gives me a back rub. Afterwards, she pulls me closer and rubs my chest while her arms are around me. Messages me that she really wants to kiss me, etc... That is what you do when you are more than friends. She knows I still have feelings for my ex. She says we can still talk about anything and she would be sad to lose our friendship. So now what? There is no way I can talk to her about the ex now. What; while we have sex, I am supposed to say, "you are so sexy and oh, btw, did I tell you about the problem I was having with "you-know-who""? She even says she is fine with the friends with benefits. We have known each other for a long time, but I feel a little weird. I don't want a girlfriend right now and I certainly don't want to mess up our relationship as friends. Man, what a mess... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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