MyNinja Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 What's Up?? For those of you who remember me from the recent posts, well I back again, lol!! My boyfriend asked me a serious, life-altering question today. He asked, "I need to ask you a serious question, would you be my baby's mama?" I told him that I don't know because I really don't know!! Having kids is a big responsibility and my life would be put on hold. I'm going into training for my paramedic career this july and I plan to move to San Luis Obispo sometime next year. Having kids never crossed my mind! Making the wrong decision could mean the difference between me being stuck in fresno trying to make the best life for my child or having an awesome career in a beautiful and plentiful town. I'm not saying that having kids would ruin my career and keep me in this dead boring town, but it would slow me down significantly and I'm not ready to settle down and start a family. From my boyfriend's point of view, he's been cheated on and lied to eleven times by each one of his past eleven girlfriends. He's so amazed that he found me because I'm an honest and good person who is in school and doesn't beg for money and walk the streets. He wasn't used to people like me. He thought that all females were the same based on his past relationships....players and users for money. When he found out that I wasn't like that he became emotionally overwhelmed and started planning his future with me. He's telling his niece to call me Auntie because he wants to marry me sometime in the future. Then he started talking about having kids and that just scared me.....he's my first boyfriend and I don't want to make any fatal decisions. I really like him and I don't want to lose him because of this! What do you guys think?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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