Once again, the "Outlook H**ker Looker"

[Lava Rocks]

Well that's what I call it anyway. Har har.

 

I was briefly seeing a guy in 02-03, but ended it when I found out he'd been sleeping with half the population of the state Capitol... Ew! A few months later he sent me an email telling me his ex gf had tested positive for HPV and Chlamydia, and I might want to go get tested (Nah, ya think?). Then on the NEXT LINE, he asked me how my New Years went and if I went to any cool parties !?!

 

I was lucky that I didn't contract anything icky from him even with protection. Lesson learned the hard way. Ew. This guy needs to be wearing a scarlet "D" for dirty, and triple bagging it.

 

About once or twice a year he'll send me a generic email (hence the title of the thread.) It usually just says "hi, it's been a while. how you doing...where you living now?" He doesn't even address me by name. It reminds me of a form letter, so I joked with friends that I bet he sends out this same email to a group of women just to see who bites, like spam.

 

Only once did I respond, and for alterior motives. Last year I was performing in that area and I made the mistake of asking him for a favor. What was I thinking? I asked if it would be cool if myself and a friend stayed at his place (offered to pay for the hospitality) since all the hotels in the area were packed for the event and charging 3-4x the regular cost for a room. His answer was something along the lines of "Sure, your friend can take the couch as long as she doesn't mind all the noise coming from the bedroom." Ugh, that's not the "payment" I was willing to offer and his remark reminded me why I stopped talking to him in the first place. Needless to say, we booked the last room we could find instead...

 

Just got another email today, made me laugh. Just wanted to vent for a second...

[Kalika]

I'm glad you didn't get anything from him, and that your sense of humor is still intact.

[CluelessGuy321]

What does this guy look like? And how does he operate?

 

I wanna know how he gets to hook up with all these girls he does it with.

[romantic sweetheart]

I'm sorry you had to endure his callous attitude toward you, toward women, toward anything of substance in this life. I know the old saying goes "to each his own" but when someone's life crosses our own and we become involved, we hurt when things go wrong.

 

You are a person of integrity and great wit.....And all your spunk and charm was wasted on a guy who sees women as nothing but a "score."

 

What you get to look forward to in this life is a man of substance who adores you, not just tick marks representing the latest one-night stand.

 

I'm glad you have honored yourself by rightfully ignoring this guy's shallow correspondence.

[Lava Rocks]

I'm sorry you had to endure his callous attitude toward you, toward women, toward anything of substance in this life. I know the old saying goes "to each his own" but when someone's life crosses our own and we become involved, we hurt when things go wrong.

 

You are a person of integrity and great wit.....And all your spunk and charm was wasted on a guy who sees women as nothing but a "score."

 

What you get to look forward to in this life is a man of substance who adores you, not just tick marks representing the latest one-night stand.

 

I'm glad you have honored yourself by rightfully ignoring this guy's shallow correspondence.

Thank you! It's ok, I'm distanced enough from it now that his emails don't really phase me. They serve as a reminder that arrogance is no substitute for confidence. At the same time, I do get the heebie jeebies thinking of how many STD's he's probably spreading around.

[Lava Rocks]

Blech! He wrote to me on Friendster as well. I haven't logged into that account in ages. I just got this message,

 

"Hey,

 

I wrote to you to your email and didnt hear back, not sure which one I should write to. Where are you living now and what are you doing?

 

-E"

 

If I ignore him, will he go away? Should I just tell him to go away?

[ghost69]

he should stop. do not reply. at least chlamydia is easy to rid of. i went to a doc cause some chick told me she had it. my doc just gave me the pills in case. was like a 5 pill cycle. stay away from those people.

 

i was interested in this one chick. i texted her late one night and she texted back 'no sex tonight' cause she was out of town. i hadn't even hooked up with her. lol she thought i was someone else. lost a lot of interest in her after that.

[Lava Rocks]

I sometimes wish it were easy to detect STI's on people, like one of those airport sniffers... I have no need for dirty men in my life. I'm not going to reply, I just don't understand. I mean, there's gotta still be some women in his area that don't know he's gross and will buy his story. The fact that he's still attempting contact with me after all these years just makes no sense to me. Oh well, I guess it isn't for me to understand.

 

Heh. Classy girl! That's funny. Glad you had the sense to stay away from her after she texted that to you! Sounds like she needs a scarlet D as well.

[ghost69]

who cares why he tries to contact you. block him as much as you can. obviously he is getting to you. you are posting here about him.

[Lava Rocks]

True! Point taken.