Alabama Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 There is this friend I've known for about 3 months. Well I figured we were just friends, but feel I'm receiving mixed signals. Well about 2 months ago, we always walk to her class and one time I had to do something, so I said I had to go, and she sounded kind of disappointed. Also over these past 3 months I've learned a lot about her, it seems we are opposite in our personalities, and we really have great chemistry. Then Friday when we went out to Sushi for lunch (When we went the first time, she wrote on a note we were passing in class, this is not a date and that was fine with me.) but then she stirred her finger in the gree tea and said, "You know...if you are in town at all during the summer and want to borrow a book (I told her I like reading and haven't had a chance to read that much these days) then you can always stop by..." or something to that effect. I also think I got her staring at me, when I first saw her in class and that was the main reason I engaged her in conversation. It seems that she made it clear that she wanted to remain just friends, and while that is still fine with me, it feels like I'm getting sent mixed signals... Link to comment
lovesickkk Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 I don't think she has done enough to show interest yet....good luck though! Link to comment
Haven Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 I'm guessing the finger-stirring thing wasn't a signal, unless it was also accompanied by winking and suggestive glances. If she was disappointed that you couldn't walk with her, it just means she likes talking to you. (And she wouldn't be your friend if she didn't like talking to you.) But by far, the strongest non-signal was the note that said, "This is not a date." You didn't say when it was written, but that note more than cancels out any other 'signals' she may have given. If she was interested, she wouldn't have written that note. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 i think she just wants to be a friend. Link to comment
Alabama Posted March 25, 2007 Author Share Posted March 25, 2007 Thanks everyone; this helps, and as I stated before, I'm okay with this. Link to comment
Altruist Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 Yes, you've made yourself a great friend Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 nothing wrong with friends. maybe some day she will want to be more. but don't think that way. Link to comment
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