NoComply Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 ok. so i have abit of a problem i think. thought id share it and see what you guys think. i have been going out with a girl since the end of december. and as much as i try, i can honestly say i am not in love with her, nor do i love her. i have strong feeling for her, but its not love. not like it has been in the past. i can honestly say that i love my best friend. but not in the same way. i find it weird, or strange that i cannot bring myself to love my girlfriend, yet i can love my best friend. even those im using the word love in two completely different contexts there. im writing this because of something that someone said to me in the pub the other night. i was in a conversation with some people i dont really know. they were all asking eachother silly questions like "if you had to, would you take a bullet for anyone" and daft stuff like that. and it made me realise, other than the family [mother and father] the only other person id do that for, was my best friend. and i dont say that lightly, id do anything for that girl. [i in no way fancy her or anything, just to make that faact clear] i just find it impossible to feel as strongly about my girlfriend as i do about her. is this odd, is there something wrong with me ? urgh, this is just turning into one long thread with me saying very little of any relevance. i dont know. i guess my feelings are just highly messed up right now. any feedback you might have would be appreciated. so if your reading this, please reply with something. whatever your thoughts on this are. Link to comment
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