Flashman Posted March 24, 2007 Share Posted March 24, 2007 Hello I am a 48 year old man from Norway. My English is far from perfect, but I will try Last Christmas my wife and I separated from 16 years of marriage. In the beginning it was wery hard times, and I was willing to do anything to get her back. I was a desperate and sad middelaged man. For 8 weeks ago I decided to try NC. It was not easy, we have two boys. 11 an 14 year old. I tryed to have minimum contact, only the necesarry contakt about the boys. The boys lives with me half the time. NC works......in the last two veeks I start to feel better. And I begin to enjoy the new freedom. It is greeat to eat, and drink what I want. I dont need to keep my apartment so shiny all the time I have plenty of time to go to the shooting range, and have a good time with my fellow pistol shooters. And I have a wery great time with my two boys, doing a lot of fun, and have relaxing quiet evnings after homework is done. My exwife have start to call mee more often. And today she had a wery sweet woice. She want mee to come home Sunday for a chat and a cup of coffe. And she need help with the computer?????? (With two boys in the house?). I played cool, but I say Yes.....I will come and help you. But I am not shure I want her back again. Life is starting to get better. Dont give up, time heals. We dont need anybody, we just want them Link to comment
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