Would you?

[littlelissa23]

If a married man/woman hit on you, that you found exceedingly attractive, would you consider it? Or would you resist it because the person is married?

[annie24]

resist! bleeeech! No way I want to be a piece of something on the side. No thanks.

 

I had a married man hit on me, and I told him to go back and work things out with his wife. I don't want some angry wife coming after me! there are more than enough single men out there.

[mxfun]

I would absolutely, positively resist that person. I would NEVER want to get involved with someone who is married; even if they tell you that their marriage is doomed! There are plenty of attractive people in the world who are single.

[Gracelove]

I would definitely stay away, I wouldn't want to be a home-wrecker. Aside from that I'd be insulted! How could that person expect me to be their thing-on-the-side, less than someone else. No thank you.

[fnlyfrei]

Yes, a person who is committed to someone else but who is hitting on you...says loud and clear "I HAVE NO INTEGRITY". So unless all you care about is sex and do not care to be emotionally involved...in the least (like a hooker or a gigalo) ('cept you don't get paid..) steer clear. Same with someone who KNOWS you are married, yet persues you...it ISNT a compliment...it is a threat. That person can never love you or respect you...if they had that in them..they would never go after you in the first place.

[CarnelianButterfly]

I'd be disgusted by him and ask what his wife would think of him being a sleaze.

[kmartin85]

blah..the fact that he is married and he was hitting on me would make him BLAH def not attractive in itself. if he is willing to cheat on his wife then he will be more than willing to cheat on his mistress

[Aleadragonhawk]

Not worth all of the heartache. I'd also be exceedingly concerned about the person's moral standards.

[shes2smart]

No crumbs, thanks. I deserve a full meal.

 

Mr. Married Guy can look for a side dish elsewhere.

[mintblossom]

there was a guy at my old work place that i thought was attractive. well, i thought he was interesting......so that made him attractive. but i didnt know he was married - he was only 24-25 but he already has like two kids!

 

when i found out, i wasnt interested in him sexually anymore.

[yeawutever]

No thanx, I would not lower myself as second best plate and why bother ruining a marriage.

[RayKay]

No way. And yes I have had the "luxury" of testing out this hypothetical in real life. The same applies to men not married but whom are in a relationship with someone! Apparently for some just being in a relationship is okay....I went to a stagette last weekend and we went dancing...there were guys hitting on ME because I was "only attached" whereas the other girls were married....GAH! THey said "what does attached mean anyway" I responded it means "NO, IT AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN!".

 

Total no-no for me.

[BeStrongBeHappy]

oh no way! this is a clear case of knowing from the get go that you are getting involved with someone who lies and cheats, not a good recommendation for a relationship.

 

It's signing up for a great big helping of misery, even if it is flattering or exciting in the beginning, odds of it ending very painfully for everyone are 99.9%...

[SummerGirl38]

It's just me but I don't believe in being #2 to anybody. Either I am in first place or I am not in line

 

Have some respect for yourself and others will have respect for you!

[Keyser_Soze]

uhhhh no way... breaking up a marriage? a family? I don't want that on my conscience no matter how hot she was

[Batya33]

Never, for moral, karma and practical/common sense reasons.

[DoorMouse]

I wouldn't get wrapped up in someone elses drama, if he/she is desperate enough to be unfaithful while married, could you imagine what they would be like single & dating.