jlove55 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I am engaged but my fiance is over seas.. My best friend is a male.. tho nothing has happened .. i have these feelings towards him and im not to sure if it is just curiosity or emotion.. What should i do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heloladies21 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 No advice, just a prediction. You will dump your bf 100% for sure. Most likely you will start dating this other guy, unless he does something to prevent it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ealmdm Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 It isn't difficult to be true to someone ... If you love your fiance, and I mean really really love him, and you still want to marry him, don't mess up your relationship. Even if you do have some sort of feelings for someone else, could you ever feel more for them than you already feel for your fiance? If not, then definitely don't act on these doubts. I know that you're probably lonely, but is a little fun and temporary affection worth losing a lifetime of love and committment? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jlove55 Posted March 23, 2007 Author Share Posted March 23, 2007 you are soo right ealm.. i love my fiance more than anything in this world.. and i am lost without him.. and in those moments of loneliness i want someone there but i can never love anyone else as much as i love him.. thank you so much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ealmdm Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I'm glad I could help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rabican Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Since you have 'these feelings' I think its not appropriate to keep hanging out with your 'friend'. My advice would be to spend far less, or no time at all with him. Focus on your man, and try to be faithful (physically and emotionally) until he gets back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsx730 Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 Since you have 'these feelings' I think its not appropriate to keep hanging out with your 'friend'. My advice would be to spend far less, or no time at all with him. Focus on your man, and try to be faithful (physically and emotionally) until he gets back. Yea, 100% agree. I've been in this situation (though I was the other guy), and I'm watching a similar situation happen with another set of friends. When your boyfriend can't be around (whether because of work, service, whatever), this other guy becomes your surrogate boyfriend. If you want to preserve your relationship with your bf, keep contact with this other guy at a minimum or your feelings will just keep growing... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blue-eyedspacemonkey Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 It is just lonliness, a lot of people I've spoken to in long distance relationships do feel like this at some point. Just remember, if you did do anything about these feeling towards your friend, he would be Mr. Right Now, and you'd end up looosing Mr. Right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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