Piper182 Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 for the past few days i have been hooking up with this guy i have been friends with since the beginning of the school year (we're both freshman at the same college). i personally have very little experience with guys mainly because i have low self-esteem and tend to back away from any feelings whatsoever. his girlfriend broke up with him about two weeks ago but he insists he is over her and has no hard feelings. i told him i didn't want to be the rebound but he said that a. he hooked up with a girl the following week and b. rebounding is only if there is no closure and he had closure. he is much more experienced than me so i told him i wanted to take the physical stuff slow and he said he wanted to take the emotional stuff slow. he doesn't want to jump into another relationship which i understand. i was wondering if anyone thinks it's really weird that i am hooking up with this guy so close to his breakup. i didn't really mean to in the beginning, we were just supposed to be watching a movie (age old classic huh...) but now he comes over at least once a day or i go over to his room. i refuse to sleep with him unless we ever do date and not for a fair amount of time into that. i have never really had a guy act as nice as he has. i am usually the girl that guys tell all their stories to, not the one they have any feelings for (and he has told me he has feelings for me). he always compliments me and told me flat out that it didn't matter if i thought bad about myself, my opinions of myself did not effect his opinions. i just do not know how to take any of this. does anyone think that i might just be someone to hook up with? he doesn't seem to be that kind of a guy but i am not niave enough to think that it never happens. please help... Link to comment
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