kiama Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Ok, Iv just been posting away all day, and this issue just got to me, so i thought id start a thread. Right, theres a lot of talk about being dumped, but also, how us dumpees tried to discuss problems only for the ex to run away from them and for us to be left stranded. Their communication problems really. now i dont believe that they will be resolved - say they meet someone else, they will run again, or either get dumped (hopefully the latter - they deserve it!) It got me thinking. i think communication is something we are either brought up with or not. Jealousy, insecurities, clingyness, control - those are kind of issues, that stem from a certain point, where one can figure out where, and actually work on those problems.... but communication - its like........... respect.... youre either brought up to be a respectful person, or a communicative one, or not - and its not easy to change how youve been brought up cos thats ALL you know. One cant just become able to communicate, or a person who doesnt respect cant just become a respectful person - its way way harder. my ex just WOULD not talk. not to his mother not to anyone, he couldnt communicate end of story. hes 23 and he CAN NOT order a taxi, and CAN NOT order a take away - he is too 'scared' to phone them. ('too scared - his own words') Any thoughts on this, or am i just blabbing as per usuall, lol Link to comment
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