swimsandserf Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 i wake up feeling sad and i just cry out of nowhere. There are moments when i can't even do anything. Everyone says that i should be happy because i have a good job and im going to school and i have a new car and blah blah but i feel like crap. i dont know whats wrong with me.. there are times when i just break down and cry. Im trying to get over my ex bf..i think im over him because i dont cry over him i just cry because im sad ( does that make sense?) i feel sooo ugly and stupid. Everything has to be perfect or i just wont do it. Please tell me whats wrong with me..If you have any questions about this ill answer them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musicguy Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 maybe you are depressed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NKP Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 I agree it sounds like your depressed you should go and see a doctor babe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aleadragonhawk Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 One thing to remember is that depression isn't always situational - it can be chemical, too. Go see a doctor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mxfun Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 I know it isn't easy - especially when you're young. All of the emotions you are expressing do seem to be symptoms of depression. I've been there, it is one of the hardest things in the world when you are in that state. I finally broke down and went to a doctor. He put me on Paxil and it made all of the difference in the world. I didn't have insurance, or money, but I decided that my well-being was more important than those two factors. Many doctors have paperwork you can fill out for financial help. Please go see a physician so you can be happy again. We are here for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jengh Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 I know exactly how you feel. I'm kind of going through the same thing. You have everything society says you need to be happy and yet, you feel worthless and awful. I suggest going to your doctor and telling him/her how you've been feeling. From there he/she can either start you on an antidepressant if they feel it's a chemical imbalance or refer you to a counselor. Don't think that seeing a therapist makes you crazy. I know some people get that idea in their mind. It doesn't. You'd be shocked at how many people seek therapy. I'm sorry you feel this way and I hope you seek treatment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimsandserf Posted March 21, 2007 Author Share Posted March 21, 2007 I know exactly how you feel. I'm kind of going through the same thing. You have everything society says you need to be happy and yet, you feel worthless and awful. I suggest going to your doctor and telling him/her how you've been feeling. From there he/she can either start you on an antidepressant if they feel it's a chemical imbalance or refer you to a counselor. Don't think that seeing a therapist makes you crazy. I know some people get that idea in their mind. It doesn't. You'd be shocked at how many people seek therapy. I'm sorry you feel this way and I hope you seek treatment thank you for telling me this because the one person (unfortunately my ex boyfriend) i went to for help, that i thought understands me the most called me crazy..well text messaged me "your crazy". it hurt a lot and it actually made me feel as if i was overreacting. i tried overdosing on pills so my counselor believed that it would be best if i didn't take any pills. im lost, literally. Am i overreacting..i feel so stupid..ill just start crying in the shower and even on the road..and thats when i want to run my car into wall..then i think about how hard my dad worked to get me that car..so i cant. i went through ups and downs with my ex then everything just hit me..he was what you called my comfort/safety zone. i hate to admit that..any input will help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musicguy Posted March 22, 2007 Share Posted March 22, 2007 hang out with your friends, your ex's are ex's for a reason. Your friends should be your comfort zone. See, people who don't know how it feels to be depressed or don't admit or show that they are depressed call people "crazy" when it's not true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swimsandserf Posted March 22, 2007 Author Share Posted March 22, 2007 hang out with your friends, your ex's are ex's for a reason. Your friends should be your comfort zone. See, people who don't know how it feels to be depressed or don't admit or show that they are depressed call people "crazy" when it's not true. I don't have any reliable friends right now...i dont talk to anyone just go to work and school..home then homework..sleep. same schedule again. What did i do to deserve this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musicguy Posted March 23, 2007 Share Posted March 23, 2007 I don't have any reliable friends right now...i dont talk to anyone just go to work and school..home then homework..sleep. same schedule again. What did i do to deserve this. I do the same thing too everyday so I know how you feel, but you got a friend right here who will listen to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MewSkitty Posted March 25, 2007 Share Posted March 25, 2007 If you need a friend who will listen to your problems and try to help and stick with you even after you feel better I can try and be that friend. I recently had problems with a hacker on AIM and my new screen name is MewtwoSkitty. I need to update my profile with it. I'm on every day from 7-10pm Mountain time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyoa Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 hey sweetie, youre not stupid nor ugly, you cant be stupid cause as you said it you have a good job, and i recomend you to go see a doctor because depression can be tragic in some cases, if you need someone to talk to feel free to PM me hope you areok , keep us alert! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spugly Fuglet Posted March 30, 2007 Share Posted March 30, 2007 i wake up feeling sad and i just cry out of nowhere. There are moments when i can't even do anything. Everyone says that i should be happy because i have a good job and im going to school and i have a new car and blah blah but i feel like crap. i dont know whats wrong with me.. there are times when i just break down and cry. Im trying to get over my ex bf..i think im over him because i dont cry over him i just cry because im sad ( does that make sense?) i feel sooo ugly and stupid. Everything has to be perfect or i just wont do it. Please tell me whats wrong with me..If you have any questions about this ill answer them Hi Swimsandserf to me You sound depresed I would really think about seeing your doctor or a councler, really clinical diprestion can come at any time in your life and you evry much sound like you slipping into it. Best place is the Doctor he can help point you at groups who can help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RebeccaChow Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 It takes time to get over someone, especially someone you love. Get a new hobby, go out with friends.. know new people! Take Yoga!! You'll get over him in time to come.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dada Posted March 31, 2007 Share Posted March 31, 2007 You know, I've been around a long time and it took time to learn that happiness comes from learning and accepting who we are and then working to become a better and stronger individual. Friends and family cannot bring us lasting happiness. Think about it, if we rely on others for happiness then we become slaves to others for continued happiness. And that can only bring disappointment and misery. It's perfectly okay to be alone and at peace with yourself. That way you will rely only on yourself for your happiness. Go and get to know who you are enjoy the learning experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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